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    Pretty cool to be the front page in Utah

    Polyamory On the Front Page In Salt Lake As I just read my own title I suddenly realized that it might sound like I myself am the front page so here is my retraction.
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    Enforced Polyamory?

    Well, for starters, if he doesn’t have the time, money, or whatever to have a date night with you, he is gonna have a hard time justifying the time and effort he would have to put into wooing her. Establishing a relationship with someone requires date nights. If she is considerate of your...
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    Pretty cool to be the front page in Utah

    City weekly is a Salt Lake City news magazine. I read this in June but just found it online and wanted to share the link. http://www.cityweekly.net/utah/article-14040-bigger-love.html.
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    What have I gotten myself into?

    Wow, what a day. I don't think this is gonna work out. Makes me sad. When we place preconceived expectations on those we love we neglect to consider their individual goals, needs and desires. We fail to respect them and love them for who they really are.
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    What have I gotten myself into?

    If it is this hard, them maybe it is not working. Just talked to Bear ( We finally have a pet name for each other). It was hard to get up the courage. I called her this morning and chickened out. Sent her a text an hour later that just said, "I need to talk." She called me immediately which...
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    What have I gotten myself into?

    If you keep blowing off your friend, you know the one who you think should be ok being stood up or second shelved because they know you just a lot stuff going on? Repeatedly!! Afterall they know you love 'em. (you proclaim it in text messages every day) <3 They know you have hang ups but they...
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    Questions from Newbie

    Our "unicorn" and hubby have a completely different way of interacting with each other. It is amusing to watch the difference, knowing hubby like I do. I can actually see how his relationship with someone other than myself is. I treat there disagreements the same as I would if he were...
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    I am trying to join the utah poly group on yahoo but have been waiting to approved for about 10...

    I am trying to join the utah poly group on yahoo but have been waiting to approved for about 10 days.
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    Help, how to make him understand :(

    Ok, I'll take a stab at it When things started changing in my relationship I started to educate myself about human sexuality and I learned that monogamy has not always been the way and that monogamy is not necessarily always the best love. One thing I now know for certain, my husband does...
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    What's in it for a unicorn?

    Poly bi wife speaking here My writing skills are not as eloquent or cultured as many are here, so I will do my best. I can't speak for my sweetheart on this, but I hope that she has benefits. The obvious would be that she is also bi, and having a male and female available for sex is great...
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    I didn't know I was capable of this kind of love.

    I am a 43yr old female, married for 17 years, we have 3 kids and I am very much in love with my hubby. We have had a fantasy of having another woman and acted on it sexually twice. We met a beautiful woman in December and have found that we are in love. I guess that makes me poly-bi. Our...
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    Children and Polyamory: Merged Threads, General Discussion

    Thanks for all the advice and good will. I am considering it all, and then rereading now and then to see how it sounds after I have time to for thought and consideration. Some makes sense and some doesn't. I'll post again when I have questions or make a decision. Thank the gods that there are...
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    Children and Polyamory: Merged Threads, General Discussion

    I don't think of her that way (a mistress). However, the secrecy does put her in a very similar position. I find myself sounding like a cheating spouse when I say things like, "You are so important to me, but we can't be in the open." I don't blame her for feeling the way she does. I am...
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    Children and Polyamory: Merged Threads, General Discussion

    My poly hubby and I are leading a secret double life. We are very secure with each other and poly relationships. We did marry and start a family as a mono couple. Our children don't know anything different than us being Mom and Dad and lovers with one another. We have a girlfriend. She is our...
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    Children and Polyamory: Merged Threads, General Discussion

    This is the big discussion for me. I know that some of my family will try to accept it. I have been this way my whole life but cannot live it. My children are teenagers. My hubby and I have found someone who we want to be with. We don't want to lose her, but we have no doubt of the...
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    Guys who shave... down there

    My hubby luv does, started shaving a couple of years ago. We both love it. the key is to use to lotion on your skin everyday.
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