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This is MikeT again..... I just finished catching up on this entire thread. I hope that my wife has been getting some of what she needs from the responses. She is clearly more engaged. I do feel like this has presented a fairly one-sided situation, and I'm not the type of person to want to...

I absolutely realize at this point that just because one of us is involved with someone doesn't mean the other one is a part of that. Although that is certainly how we started this (by her insistence). There was never a desire to treat people as disposable, which is why we wanted to "date"...

I think we have moved on from all of that. At this point the cute idea of threesomes, or closed triads is 10 steps behind where my wife's head is at (I believe). I don't really know why seeing me with another woman turns her on, it simply does. The same way I don't know why I have such a...

I'm not looking for support necessarily. I already understand it is selfish. I don't know how to change how I feel. Thanks for your help.

I apologize in advance for the length of this. I feel the context is relevant to explain how I got here. Also, I have never posted on a blog or visited a discussion board before, so please let me know if I'm doing something wrong. My wife (Marie) and I are on our second marriages. My...