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    Have you lost anything from being poly?

    Thanks for all of your responses! I have actually found them incredibly helpful. Sorry to hear from all of you who have lost friends, family and even jobs from being poly. It is sad how judgemental people can be. HappilyFallenAngel I like your concept of being committed to authenticity and...
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    Have you lost anything from being poly?

    Hi, I would like to ask if anyone feels they have lost anything from adopting polyamorous relationships - if there is anything they miss about being monogamous. I am pretty new to poly relationships and trying to make sure it is the right decision for me before committing. Thanks :)
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    First poly relationship - mistakes made

    Thanks for the replies - I would have continued the conversation further but I wasn't getting my email alerts through for some reasons. I will say that some of the comments don't reflect the exact events (just because I didn't describe the situation in enough detail) but I feel it would take...
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    First poly relationship - mistakes made

    Thank you Galagirl, that is very helpful to me and I thank you for your time and your kindness :) Yes I am changed from this experience and have grown a lot from it. And I will take that with me. It seems like my partner is not ready to talk until tomorrow - apart from the exchange of angry...
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    First poly relationship - mistakes made

    Hi nycindie. Thanks for replying. I perhaps didn't make it clear in my post but what I have done is let my needs be known to my partner and am waiting to hear if that is acceptable to her or if we can find a compromise. I have not tried to control her and do not have expectations that she has to...
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    First poly relationship - mistakes made

    Thanks GalaGirl, yes I told my partner that her behavior here was a red flag for me and that this is something we are gonna have to sort out if we are to progress. Yes you are right when you say we are working out if we are compatible. Its just we have one of those connections that has been so...
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    First poly relationship - mistakes made

    So I developed an interest in poly relationships last year, thought it might fit me but hadn't done too much research or introspection on the matter. Then I met someone online who had been poly for a long time and was currently single. She lived a fair distance away. We developed a really deep...
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    Hello from Manchester

    Hi from Manchester UK! So about 6 weeks ago I met a truly wonderful and amazing soul, we fell in love and began a relationship. She has been poly on and off for most of her life and was clear this was the kind of relationship that met her needs. I had been interested in polyamory for some...
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