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Thanks for your input and understanding in this tough time. TL: Thanks very much. I've had the opportunity to look over Polly's shoulder and read some of your posts. All very kind, thoughtful, and appreciated. Buddy, it was completely in my interest to have C around. Absolutely no doubt. But I...

The response Yes TL, you're pretty close. I'll try to keep this as brief as possible. Within weeks of the first sign of P2 having trouble with C and me, I broke up with C. Polly is and has always has been my first priority and it kills me to see her in pain. Until that point Polly had assured...

Out of your butt, dumbass! :rolleyes:

Personally, I feel like "weening her off" only means leading her on, until such time as you feel you're ready to crush her feelings. Pull the bandaid off fast, is my advise

Those "flexible" boundaries will bite you in the ass every time. They have to be hard and fast and apply to all, or they have to be dropped. IMHO

I believe that we all go through cycles in our everyday lives. I had a situation a few years ago with My wife of 25 years and one of her plutonic girlfriends. There was definitely a super strong connection (what as I now know is NRE) between the two ladies, though nothing physical ever took...

Wow! Now that is cool. Great idea, and congrats!