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  1. andrei

    poly breakup advice...

    thank you Gala girl, ny cindie, idealist & bookbug Thank you for all the kind words and thoughts The most sobering thing was seeing my posts about the same exact thing a year ago, I cant belive I volunteered for that roller coaster again Hope everyone is enjoying their weekend
  2. andrei

    poly breakup advice...

    PolyinPractice: I wasn't asking a direct question, and no I'm not surprised that relationships end. I'm just having trouble coping with a loss I should only be grateful for all things considered. Besides externalizing my thoughts, venting so to speak...I guess I was looking for someone that...
  3. andrei

    poly breakup advice...

    Thought I would ask if anyone had been in a similar situation and had any advice for me: I have been with my wonderful partner M for over 7 years now , her and I have great communication and times together. Our relationship has always been open , and for the most part we found it very enjoyable...
  4. andrei

    Hey what part of socal are you in? San Diego poly couple here, both 33

    Hey what part of socal are you in? San Diego poly couple here, both 33
  5. andrei

    appropriate emotional response

    GG, thank you for all the kind words and yes I became intimately acquainted with the Kübler-Ross model for grief when I lost my father a few years back... it does help to be a little more self-aware to understand your own feelings and cope with them I guess my main problem is that I feel as...
  6. andrei

    appropriate emotional response

    So here's the quick and dirty version: Been in a wonderful open relationship for 6 years, we've had our problems (who hasn't) But most of them centered around our 3rd , here on referred to as 'J' She moved in and out of our lives 3 times because of her inability to be responsible, safe &...
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