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Wow! I think you just distilled the base issue in my relationship and one I hadn't even considered... so thanks! And I agree wholeheartedly about finding things that not only occupy your time, but that you enjoy and are passionate about. This could be other people or hobbies or a cause...

I've done so much soul searching over the past year or so that I've explored about every deep, dark nook and cranny that exists! And I can still learn more about myself... And I agree that Ka does need to do some soul searching. I'm trying to gently nudge her, but there are reasons it will be...

I agree. This past week was... different and difficult. D was truly at a loss and I was trying to help him and see that he shouldn't end the relationship with Ka without at least talking with her. And trying to do damage control with her, so she wouldn't feel so terrible and keep pushing him...

Actually, Ki has been in the picture the longest. They dated years ago for a few months in their early 20s and then were apart for a while. They've been seeing each other on and off for about 12-13 years now. Ka has been with D for almost 4 years. He's almost always had multiple...

Thanks RP for your suggestions. I agree partly with this. And I know Ki and I have been trying to reassure her and D has too. We do have boundaries that we've all agreed we feel comfortable with and that works for all of us. We discussed some of them last Sunday. It's probably frustration...

Good point! lol D has already said to her most of what I wrote. And if the chance arises, I'll mention it again. Guess I shouldn't be borrowing trouble... I just fear that she doesn't believe it's is better for her to focus more on herself. She is thinking of the reduced time as...

Hi everyone, There has been some upheaval/possible changes in my relationship world…(straight mono female with straight poly male - D, who has two other straight mono female partners - Ka and Ki). D and Ka had problems last week. She has admitted jealousy issues, but can't seem to get a...

>Well, it sounds like your foursome has worked through a lot of issues in the >past couple years. It's great you, Ki >and Ka all get along fairly well now. That we have! And I do genuinely like them both and they both like me. We get along very well, especially when it's just the three of us...

>Having three mono partners sounds A LOT. I mean, one mono/polyship is >hard enough to juggle, but with a busy workload and three women who >each rely solely on him for their romantic and sexual needs - is D really up >for the job? It is a lot. And I've wondered if it wouldn't be better for...

Thanks for replying (to everyone who did!) >Even if D is precise in what he gives the three of you (your story says >otherwise), your individual perceptions may highten differences. Individual perceptions not only heighten the real differences - i.e. time together, attention, sex, etc - they...

My Story in Two Parts: Part II Part II: D and I have been truly enjoying and living our relationship since the end of April. We three girls have gotten together several times and had fun and we've all had good times together. But, there are still issues. As it stands now, my time with him...

Good afternoon, I'm a straight mono female involved with a straight poly male, D. He has 2 other straight mono female partner, Ki and Ka. We've all been with him at least three years and are all over 40; none of us live with him. We're a closed group. When D and I first started seeing...

Been reading through the forum for a while now and regularly reading and semi-regularly posting on other poly/mono groups. Decided it was time to introduce myself. I'm a straight mono female involved with a straight poly male, D. He has two other straight mono female partners, Ki and Ka. D...