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I think that is great advice if I wanted to continue seeing her. But I broke up with her almost a month ago. I want to heal and move on. I am not interested in seeing her or having a relationship with her. And hearing from her randomly means that whatever pieces I have picked up get thrown back...

I have another issue as well: Lacy has been trying to get in touch with me about once a week. She texts me, and every time she does, I have the same reaction: I get totally emotionally flooded, and I end up feeling crummy the rest of the day. My counselor suggested being very direct and...

Sneacail: thank you for that very logical and practical advice. I plan to say these things later today! nycindie: Whoa!! This made me smile! I appreciate the bold and genuine response. I do need to put on my big girl panties. Thanks for the kick in the butt and the reality check :) I'm not...

I agree with GalaGirl- sometimes there are certain roles that you may not want crossing certain lines. I don't think there is anything wrong with that, and probably nothing deeper to it. If you feel like there is something deeper or more unsettled going on (i.e., feeling insecure or jealous that...

I feel so horrible still. I think you advice, GG, is great. And it's what I would like. I haven't asked for emotional space and for him to not text/call her when we are together because I am afraid of him getting defensive and upset. But it just feels so painful when I know he is texting with...

Thanks for welcome!! From the beginning, we were on the same page about being emotionally intimate with others and the possibility of falling in love and loving other people simultaneously. The thing that has been my biggest hurdle is simply the sharing of time, and feeling excluded when my BF...

Hi everyone! I am a 24 year old bi (pan?) woman in the Pacific Northwest. My primary male partner and I have been together about 6 years now (we met our third week of college!). We opened up about a year and a half ago after reading Sex at Dawn together. We started off swinging, and while we...

thank you It is amazingly refreshing to hear from other people about this... just feeling compassion, empathy, and some outside perspective is so good. thank you so much.

My male primary partner, J, and I have been together for just about six years now. We opened up almost a year and a half ago. We first ventured out in the swinging community but have since branched out to where we do separate, as well as couples, dating. I am bisexual, and it was very...