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No, nycindie, you are absolutely right. Which is why this whole thing with A's roommate has me concerned that she is that type of female exactly and I'm the only one seeing it or being slightly cautious about it. There are many...yellow flags, I guess...with A that I am monitoring. Such as her...

I have thought this myself a few times actually and when I bring it up to J, he says he's just taking care of her because she needs it and he has the money, so why not? And it's not like she only comes over when she needs something, which is what she used to do. She comes over to actually spend...

I understand that perhaps this relationship would appear to be based on sex, but it isn't. We do have times where we just hang out and talk about random stuff, or about our relationship. She comes over in the early morning after work sometimes and we all have early morning coffee outside, or...

Yes. J is very generous when it comes to money. A is a young female who delivers papers at night and goes to school part time. So she has literally no money. J has made it clear that he doesn't mind helping her out with certain things. Example: A broke her phone so J went and got a cheap boost...

Yes, yes, and yes! These are my thoughts exactly! I know part of my anger was indeed the fact they were having sex, because I am not really sure how I feel about it (mixed emotions at different times) but this particular instance just made my blood boil! I wasn't given any options, which isn't...

A has known S for a little over a month. Any time she talks about him, she makes it seem like they barely talk and are just roommates. Also, S has slept with the other female roommate (literally, the night he moved into the house). When I say we made it clear to A that this was not an open...

GalaGirl: Yes and yes. I understand there is a difference between comparing what she gets to what I get (You had sex with her twice, now you have to have sex with me twice, for example) and I know it doesn't have to be the same. What is important is that needs are being met. I think a need of...

To make this a little clearer, previously (one or two days prior to this) J and I initiated sex in the bed when A was there, partially asleep. But J made a point to wake her up so she could be included and wouldn't feel left out should she happen to be woken up during...so why don't I deserve...

As it says in the subject, I am new to poly relationships. A little background: I am a 28 year old female, my boyfriend (J) is a 45 year old male. We have been together and have lived together for about two and a half years. We have four children (three mine, one his, none together). Ever since...