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Good question. For me, in some ways it most definitely comes from past trust issues. But it also comes from the fact that I am a curious person who likes to have the WHOLE story, with ALL the details. Karma doesn't. As I learned in some of the fights between Cricket and me, Karma fails at...

Brigid-we have several friends heading out tomorrow as well. Though it's a bit closer for us. Have a good time and be safe! It takes 6-7 hrs to get to ohio and I hate making that drive alone. I'm doing okay. Went to practice with Karma, got some good pictures. Sitting outside after being cooped...

But what about someone you are dating, babe? You meet random chick on OKC, and you know nothing about her other than what has been said over a computer. No desire to see if she is really who she says she is? Maybe I'm too paranoid. But I'm not going to take some random person's word for it.

Maybe that's it. Being an Army brat (both my mom and dad were Army), as well as working in childcare, I was always getting checked, interviewed, whatever. So maybe it just became part of me. I have nothing to hide, so go ahead and check all you want. Hmm... something to think about. I've even...

So this seems to be the hot debate on several threads lately. Karma and I had a long talk about it the other night, as well. Can someone explain why privacy is such a huge issue? I'm an open book. I have nothing to hide. I have no issue with Karma reading my e-mail or messages, nor do I have...

Was FINALY able to go outside since the heat and humidity dropped. Went to fighter practice with Karma. Sitting outside and watching my boy fight always brings a smile to my face.

I don't see anyting wrong with it. Especialy cuz that story would have sounded off to me to begin with. I did one on Karma's dad before I gave him his contact info, when I found him. I didn't want Karma trying to start a relationship with him without knowing his history. I don't see anything...

Watching some Hockey with my boy. so far so good.:D

When did it move to PA? Hope you guys have a good time. I am so glad darkon only does weekend campouts. Karma has wanted to go to rag but that requires money and me being okay with him being gone that long :)

I never snooped until I realised Karma was hiding things. I have never had an issue with privacy. He's my husband and I hide nothing from him. He knows all my passwords and knows he can look whenever. My big red flag was when his passwords changed and he had issues with giving me the new ones...

Heat index of 105 for the week. Air quality at Orange level, meaning I can't leave the house. Even sitting in the central air I am having a hard time breathing. Karma is out with friends and for once I want to leave the house and can't. So I cleaned the house instead. Over did it as usual...

I dunno if you have this kind of support, but, for me, feeling out boundaries was easier because I knew I had Karma's support. When we discussed it, I told him, "I am trying to learn to be okay with this and to deal with all these emotions. I am honestly trying. I need your support and your...

Yeah starvation and constant activity are not the healthiest way to live. I didn't workout much in ohio mostly because we on the go the whole time I was there. I've had some vacation recovery time and plan to start back to working out tomorrow. I love my body no matter what it's size, and I want...

Made dinner for Karma. I love greeting him after a campout with a yummy dinner. And then I showed him the new dresses I bought and I thought his eyes were gonna pop out of his head, and then he gave me the recap of his weekend...all smiles!!!

It's rare that I agree with NYCindie, but in this case, I do. Transitioning to polyamory after an affair is hard. It take a lot of work. Karma and I are a little more than a year out from me finding out about all his affairs. It took a lot of work to get where we are now. What worked best for...

Not much to really update. We just got back from Ohio. It was a nice switch to come home and have Karma here to help me unpack instead of running out the door to keep someone happy. We got everything put away. He made plans to see Dancer, but she was really sick and sent me a message to let him...

Made dessert for Karma to take to Dancer's place tonight. Strawberry/blueberry tart with chocolate drizzle and pastry cream.

That's the issue with labels. As much as they make it easier to catagorize people. They do exactly that, stick people in boxes with the definition of whoever wrote it. You are awesomely you and that is all you need to be. You don't need a book to tell you how dominate you are. You are you with...

Actualy finding my independance is what helped saved my marriage. Things with Karma and I are amazing. He still feels needed, there are just somethings I need my husband for ;). It is about balance. But I can't really give you much on it, it just kind of happens for us. Karma missed the woman...

Actualy it is totaly possible for men to lactate.