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(more random thoughts that kicked in as the pain pills kicked in) Our talks were very encouraging though. Her being real with me allowed me to open up a bit more. We at one point discussed comfort levels and I opened up to having issues with things that should be, in my head, done by me as his...

Personally, I think if it is going to effect her job, and it sounds like it will, you owe your wife the respect of not screwing that up for her. I understand the need/desire to open and stand by your beliefs. But I also understand that sometimes discretion is a better option. I am completely...

When we first started this crazy ride I asked Karma what he wanted. Why he wanted to keep fighting forward in this crazy new life we were building. He told me his dream was to come home after changing the world to his shaman and his fairy. Well, he's still changing the world, one person at a...

Enjoying having poly actually work without drama. And enjoying building a friendship with Pixi. I needed a ride to my disability apt tomorrow and was offered a ride by someone I barely know. Karma and I weren't all that comfortable with that, so I took a leap and asked him to ask Pixi. I never...

Talked with my new interest today. Not sure what nickname to give him yet. But I brought up the whole double date idea. I explained that it gives me the safety of a public place that I am comfortable in, my husband gets the chance to meet him and with Pixi there it evens things out so no one is...

It really hurts me that you had to put that out there. But I hope others who passed judgement are able to understand now. When we first found out and Karma was so angry I told him that sometimes suicide is the only way to kill the demons and while that hurts the living, we have to move forward...

Oh and once we get back on our feet with Karmas new job, we'll be double dating with my new interest. Kind of awesome.

I really enjoyed last night. Thank you for your patience. And for taking our poking fun at you so well. It's fun to watch you blush.:D

You know what Pixi, people will always judge what they don't understand and will more often than not project their own issues onto others. Be genuine to who you are and walk your life path with your head high. I'm really proud of you and the work we've put in to this.

Kind of floating at the moment. Had a great night with Karma and Pixi last night and Karma starts his new job tomorrow.

Karma is off taking a drug test for a new job. I have my first disability appt on Friday and last night we had a great time with the three of hanging out. Karma and I made dinner, Pixi made dessert and we talked and watched a movie and talked some more. I was very apprehensive about her at...

I'm not going to lie and say I wasn't bothered about Karma and Pixi getting together so quickly after her husband died. I was also bothered about how she acted, she wasn't grieving in a manner I was used to. So I can see where you guys are coming from. But now that I've taken time to know her...

I spent several hours talking to Pixi on Friday night. It was really good to be able to enjoy talking to a metamour without pretenses and drama. I've only had that with one other. It really makes all the difference. And yesterday after reading some of her posts, I noticed some inaccuracies in...

I just spent hours re-reading through everything. It seems like it's been longer than three years. It seems like forever ago that we were talking divorce and deciding to give it another chance. Yet here we are, three years later. Still learning, still growing and still very much in love.

Of course you did :D

Just my personal opinion, but sometimes it's not about fixing that fire but the ones in the future. When I first started here almost 3 years ago our train wrecked before I even knew what was going on. I was given a lot of advice, a lot of tools and a lot of help. Some of it really did help with...

Well it appears we're back. Still not sure how active I'll be. I want to give Karma's g/f a chance to explore and learn without intrusion, but wanted to check in.

To answer your question, I see other relationships enhancing our marriage just as friendships do. Having people in your life that you care about and care about you will enhance your life and therefor your other relationships. I also wanted to bring up the idea that maybe he is struggling...

Things are so crazy busy! Karma is 'single' again. He has a new sub that I imagine will move into a relationship at some point. I'm not overly crazy about her, but I am beginning to resign myself to the fact that he is not attracted to the same types of people I would consider friend material...

Oh LR. I am so sorry you're still dealing with the circles. I know it doesn't help with the current situation, but Karma and instituted a "Don't talk about me" rule. I don't think they realize the conflict it causes. When you vent to one partner about another, especially when they have nothing...