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Not sure what you're implying here. I've spoken with both of them so I do understand what their situation was and I know what he told me from the beginning. I also know how much my ex is laying in alimony and child support and he now lives back at home with his parents, so it's not a joke that...

Claire, thanks for sharing; your story is encouraging to hear a similar story and know that it's been working out. To answer your questions, I am okay with it if I don't meet his kids. It isn't a need to for to feel secure in the relationship that I have with him. More time? That one is...

Thanks Kevin, I'll definitely update if things change. Slow seems to be the name of the "game." I think we all need time to get acclimated. Learning as we go...

I am absolutely willing to respect their relationship. I spoke with her and told her that if she wanted me out of the picture, I would leave quietly. She told me no. I needed to hear that from her because I did not want to feel like the other woman. She is struggling with the idea that her...

Okay, I'll try and answer your post point by point... Does he want to leave his wife? No. They have young children and are pretty intertwined. Did I want it? Well, I expected it based on the information I had when I first met him. But I now know that that is not going to happen, and I am...

Breathe, you ask some great questions and here is what I understand; the marriage was over, but he was not in a position to leave. I don't want to get into details, but because of his profession and their living situation, they are very intertwined. He was done in the marriage, but knew it...

Hi Dinged, I guess that's ultimately what I'm worried about. I really enjoy the relationship as-is, and I think he does a great job of being considerate to both of us. Although I never would have pictured myself here, I do find that I am really happy with how things are. I wonder what it...

So quick intro; I'm "Gracie." Just leaving a 15 year monogamous (well, he cheated, I didn't) relationship. I turned to an online dating site and met my current partner and found myself in a poly relationship, which I was not expecting. So, now the question... my partner is married...