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I will be using astrological signs in place of names because these people really fit their signs, including me. (Gemini=me) So my boyfriend (Libra) has a casual friends with benefits type relationship with this girl (Cancer). When they first were getting to know each other, he told her that he...

Also, I'm the one who came into this wanting it to be open and he was accepting but hesitant to the idea. So now he's obviously warmed up to it but one would think that he would be even more careful about boundaries since he was the one that had all the qualms about it in the first place.

I kind of have to wonder if she was the one pushing him to go into the bedroom... I don't want to create an imaginary scenario of her being the bad guy but... Even if that were the case he should have said no, that's off limits.

Thank you GalaGirl and Cleo for the empathetic responses. I got home about an hour ago and he was actually sleeping on the couch, and had our bed all made up.. I was planning on coming home and sleeping on the couch since I'm so upset with him. So either he just passed out there or he was...

Also, his excuse for going in the bedroom was because we have a friend staying with us at our house until she can move into her new place. She is staying in the basement, which is very private. She's been staying there for a little over a week and we have seen her come upstairs maybe twice...

Seriously guys, thank you, all of you, for the insight. I may not agree with everyone but I really do appreciate the perspective. I feel like I should compose some more responses to the posts that have been made... But I can't at this moment.. Because I am dealing with a new development that I...

So I've gone over most of the posts here with him, and he pointed out that I missed a part of the situation. While he works 4 days during the week with me at the job I've mentioned, he also gets paid to play in a band every weekend. They perform every Friday and Saturday. A lot of times I go...

Thanks so much everyone for taking the time to respond. I am already feeling like I have a better handle on things. I would like to keep the conversation going if I can.. Thanks for that, I think both of us need to remember that. Just upon reading it, I realized, yeah, why am I beating myself...

Thanks for the responses. I don't know why my mind goes there? I know I am supposed to get the the root of the jealousy, but that's not even really the feeling I experience when he's with her while I'm at work. Its just this awful feeling in my stomach. It's not because I am worried she will...

So my boyfriend and I don't really know what we're doing, as we're new to this whole world. I need advice concerning our open relationship. It's so hard to navigate this unknown world when there aren't a lot of examples to go by!! I had been through a string of relationships where (1) the guy...