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He really did, i mean if I didn't *know* the man I'd think he was just saying what I wanted to hear. But I do know him, and I know this situation is harder on him than on me. Like today... Castle was going to come by and bring back some stuff he'd borrowed before they go out of town. But Wifey...

I had that heart to heart with Castle yesterday. And about a dozen others. I feel sooooo much better. Things started off weird - I met him at his place, while his wife was out talking to people about work/school opportunities for her here... It was just completely fucking weirding me out to be...

I know you guys are right, and that it makes sense to deal with the situation sooner rather than later. But.. I guess I'm not quite sure yet if "deal with it" is preferable to "break up before Wifey moves here". Because, really, the chances of this working out seem slim. Very slim. Like, close...

It's been forever since I've posted anything, so obviously life has been going smoothly :p Andy is all work, work, work... If he's home he's usually on two conference calls at once. Our anniversary was this week, and he managed to come home for dinner (!!!) then passed out on the sofa for a...

It's been a week, and my sprained ankle has not miraculously healed, and that frustrates the shit out of me... But other than that it was a really good weekend. Things feel MUCH better with Andy, now that I'm sleeping in our bed again. I've also been making more of an effort to do stuff together...

I pretty much text everybody whenever - but I don't expect an immediate response, especially if I know they're on a date/at work/with their kids. To me that's the great thing about texting - I can send a message when it occurs to me to send it, without worrying that it will be an interruption...

So true, Mags, about the separate room thing being common. Now that I think about it, I know lots of couples who have their own rooms, officially or unofficially. Andy isn't even a cuddly sleeper, I'm the one who wants to be snuggled up all night, kind of ironic he's the one who's upset when I...

It's so interesting how different people feel intimacy. How random things affect us and how close or distant we feel. Andy has been in a funk the past couple of days, doing some poor-me stuff about Castle getting more time with me. Which annoyed me, honestly, because Castle is being a HUGE...

I think you guys are right, and a little DADT around spousal sex is probably our best bet. It's what we originally agreed on, actually. since Castle's wife is not seeing anyone else (and hasn't since they got married), and Andy and I don't do anything involving fluid exchange, it's fine to just...

It really is that different. I don't know why :confused: But I just do not think of manual play or even oral as "sex". It's... Foreplay? Making out?Fooling around? Hooking up? It's basically in the same mental category for me as French kissing and breast play. (I have no idea how to categorize...

Sooooo I sprained my ankle :( I was trying to carry my older dog (70 lbs) while holding the leash of the other one (90lbs) and slipped on some gravel, I think ... Honestly it's kind of blurry. But I went down HARD, managed to take the fall so the dog didn't get hurt, ended up with deep cuts on...

Yeah, I just bristle at the expectation that I will be eager to befriend some chick simply because she happens to be married to my boyfriend. Or worse, that I will kiss her ass and suck up to her in gratitude for her "letting" me date her husband. And some of the things Castle has said make me...

After three days of crazy hot marathon reunion sex, I can barely move :p but damn it's good to have Castle back. He came to see my dogs today and gave my sweet old lady lots of love - it's pretty cool to be dating a true dog person. (She seems to be happy as ever, which makes me hope we will...

My boy gets back tomorrow :) I could use the cheer up - I've been feeling down lately. My sweetie dog has cancer, again, and this time it's in a place (on her ankle) where the vets don't think they can get it all surgically. Which is probably a moot point, since she's too old and frail for a...

Thanks WildColonial... Have to admit I still cringe at the thought of people reading the Dag-era posts ! But they are honest, if raw, and maybe everyone gets a pass on their first true attempt at poly ;) Counting the days until Castle gets back... I miss him like crazy. But in the sane, normal...

I feel like every day I think of things I want to write here, and then life happens, and there is just no time... Castle is coming back to town in a little over a week, and he'll be here for a full month again. He's trying to move his job here, or find a new one, so that he can be in Dallas...

Castle left this morning for two and a half weeks back home on the east coast... We spent last night together at the lake with my dogs, a perfect way to share his last night here, since we have had so many amazing times up there this summer :) I miss him already, but I'm in a better place about...

😂 This cracked me up! Seriously, though, I'm averaging 15 hours a week naked-in-bed time with Castle. It's fucking ridiculous and I'm sure at some point we will have to slow down. But for now... Mmmm yummy NRE sex :p I'm so happy to hear you're feeling more like yourself :D

My sweet doggy is finally feeling better, so I was able to leave her with Andy while he worked from home, and spend the afternoon and evening at Castle's place. It felt soooo nice to get real time with him, not just a rushed few hours. It's crazy, if you'd asked me before I met him, I would have...

Thanks Mags, I really needed to read that today! One of my dogs is sick, and because of that I'm going to miss 2 overnights with Castle... We were going to take the dogs to the lake, that's obviously out... and then next week we had planned a road trip, but if I can't board the dogs, I can't go...