Search results

One theory - it's possible he is being more "over the top" than he would be if you were single - but not necessarily because he wants to steal you away. More because he can say and do all the crazy in love stuff without worrying that he's leading you on and you're going to expect a diamond ring...

Yes yes yes. I left Castle's place about two hours ago and I'm already feeling it. In previous relationships I remember feeling sort of fulfilled and sated for a couple of days after time together ... Not with Castle. I just want to be with him all the damn time. Of course, I miss Andy if I...

I am simply so head over heels madly in love with Castle that being away from him is physically painful. Which sounds all wonderful and romantic and all, but it seriously sucks when I have to squeeze in time with him around the rest of my life. I spent the night at his place Friday, left around...

Crazy weekend - my friends K and R broke up then got back together, well sort of back together. I am trying to be a good friend to K by loving her and supporting her, but... When your best friend calls you in hysterical tears and tells you all the horrible things her fiance is saying, it's damn...

Happy Birthday :D What a perfect plan you have to celebrate too - enjoy!!!

Oh man. The ignoring the woman's voice/ needing a man's answer thing is seriously the one thing that is guaranteed to PISS. ME. OFF. I simply cannot let it slide, I will call it out. I'll be sweet as pie about it, because I'm a southern girl... But I will not rest until I've gotten some...

Sooooo... Picked my amazing guy up from the airport today, spent all afternoon in bed, then went out to dinner... And poof all my worries and anxieties are gone. :rolleyes: Why do I fall apart when I have to go more than a few days without seeing a partner? Because it's not just a castle...

Well. Yes. I haven't done the back-up friend thing since college, when spending a Friday night alone was social suicide, but ... I still do the back-up date thing anytime I'm online dating. Anybody remember Clark:rolleyes: It's not even for sex, it's just the self esteem boost of having someone...

One thing that stuck out for me in your story was the word "smothered"... Having multiple partners usually means having less alone time, at least it does if you're trying to spend a lot of time with all of them. Add kids to that, and... I imagine your wife just isn't getting much time to...

Words were actually my top love language when I took the quiz years ago... But I think the Dag experience messed with that :( His words did not match his actions, and eventually I started to believe "talk is cheap". Now when Castle says he misses me, my gut reaction is to see the words as scraps...

I think the issue of "who should talk to Meta" depends on what kind of relationship you want to have with her going forward. When you think about living close by, do you envision having a friend - or -family type relationship with her? Negotiating schedules, finances, child care if applicable...

Actually this is kind of what I did today, and it did help! Not exactly pretend I had no boyfriend, but not bother trying to feel close and connected. Focus on my own stuff, have a me day. Painted my nails, bought some new makeup, got my hair cut and colored, did yoga, read a book. It felt nice...

Well, I managed to be zen and happy with poly for, what, 6 weeks? :rolleyes: Tonight I just feel like everything is falling apart. It's not even poly, it's the distance - or maybe the combination. Who knows. I have been having a crap night in general, and then Castle sends me pics of himself...

As another total type A planner, and someone who tends to plan around my partners, I feel for Dancer a little - limbo drives me INSANE. "Maybe" is ok for super casual things, like the karaoke party, where I genuinely don't care much whether any particular person is there or not. But bigger or...

I'm sitting here looking at Castle's car parked in my driveway - he left it here while he's back home for the week. Kind of a nice reminder that he's in my life, even though tonight he's camping with his wife and stepdaughter and out of cell range :o Getting to drive him to the airport felt...

It is REALLY hard to lose weight while lost in NRE... I'm around 130, which should be panic territory. But instead of working out, I'm spending every spare second with Castle. And instead of dieting, I'm lying around naked eating junior mints while my boy tells me I'm perfect exactly the way I...

I have to go to a funeral tomorrow. I HATE funerals. I don't know why but I always have panic attacks :( It starts to feel like there's no air, and I can't breathe, and that turns into intense physical pain in my chest, until it's like my heart and lungs are being squeezed until they explode...

All I ever do anymore is post pics. Life is good and there's nothing to agonize over I guess ;) And no time to write about it all! Ice cream with Andy last night http://www.polyamory.com/forum/album.php?albumid=941&pictureid=3637...

Well, Castle and I crossed off a couple more relationship milestones... First time he saw me really drunk, and first hungover quickie while we tried to ignore the dogs pawing at the bed :p We went out last night and I had 3 beers, which is one more than I can have without getting shitfaced...

More pics, from getting ice cream with Castle today ... http://www.polyamory.com/forum/album.php?albumid=941&pictureid=3635 http://www.polyamory.com/forum/album.php?albumid=941&pictureid=3634 Today was the first time since we started sleeping together that we hung out and didn't have sex - I...