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Just an update on this. The mistress and I broke up and I came clean about the affair with my wife. I wish she blew up at me, but she didn't. We're going to go to couples therapy to see if we can work things out. I don't think we will be able to, but want to work through the therapy and make...

They really do mean the world to me. I've been with many *cough*, many women in my single days, so I feel that I have a good perspective on the difference between love and lust, but agree it's still in the NRE category. My mistress did ask me how would she know that I wouldn't cheat on her if...

It's true that I'm in NRE with the mistress. The NRE is off the charts, so I guess it's really blurring my vision. I guess I didn't really think the situation would work, but it seems like it was close to being able to work, which is why I found myself here. I needed to widen my perspective...

Thanks for the straight from the hip honesty. Yes, I can see how I'm being selfish and that both women need to be dealt with honestly as well. I have been honest with my mistress but not my wife. I don't like being dishonest with her.

Thanks for all of the best wishes moving forward. I agree, I don't know how to open up the relationship in a way that lets her also deal with all of these changes alongside me.

I know I've broken trust big time and know it's an extremely difficult thing to rebuild.

This is the direction I'm leaning in. I think the mistress and I would pursue more of an open-relationship and not poly on our own, but I am able to be 100% open and honest with her, so at least we'd have the ethical Well, I didn't say ooops, I'm cheating. I said oops, I fell in love. I am...

The woman I am having an affair with is willing to become that involved with our family. I am deeply in love with this woman as she is with me. I am reading the ethical slut and agree that it would be incredibly unethical and it's something I struggle with. Honestly, I'd want to leave my wife...

Hi there, I'm new to the group. My wife and I have been married for 6 years and have two young children. My wife is bi, but it's not something we've had a lot of time to explore, esp now with kids but we have explored it. I happened to meet a great young woman and started an affair - we've...