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I am questioning what part commitment plays in relationships... Is it healthy to commit to another person or to remain free and allow them to be free? If it is healthy to commit in some way, what is it that is healthy to actually commit to? I'm interested in what people have to say on the...

It's been over 2 and a half years since my last post and it is time for an update... Besides, I think I need a place to tell my story where like minded people may be able to understand... I have been exploring poly now for around 10 years, and quite frankly, it has been a disaster! I am now a...

Hi everyone! It's been a few months since I last posted... But I really need your listening ears and words of wisdom! Just to bring you all up to speed... I am married and 7 years ago fell in love with another woman, while also still being in love with my wife. My wife tried to be OK but was...

My wife has recently met a guy and has fallen in love with him. I am genuinely happy for her. What I am finding most painful, though, is that I can sense that she is more open emotionally and is more excited about seeing him than she is me. She has even said so herself. She is aware that she is...

Hi All, It's been a while since I've posted, so a quick update... I have been married for 20 years to my wife and we have 3 daughters. 6 years ago I fell in love with another woman but was still madly in love with my wife at the same time. I had never heard of polyamory and was firmly...

I'm interested to hear what people have to say about this, as it has come up in discussion a few times with people I start talking to about polyamory. If one person in a long-term relationship is starting another relationship, and they are very open with their LTR partner about it, and all is...

Wow! This is all so new to me! A few days ago I didn't even know the word polyamory existed! Anyway, I've got a bit of a story and I would really appreciate people's thoughts/advice and even sharing their experience as a way of helping me sort through all of this. I hope this is right place to...