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    I am in Machesney Park, 61115. Just north of Rockford =)

    I am in Machesney Park, 61115. Just north of Rockford =)
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    Trouble in the V

    I haven't heard of the title before. Doesn't surprise me that there are at least five ways to express love though. I'll see if I can find a copy somehow. Thank you!
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    Trouble in the V

    Transgendered lovers are indeed very needy. I totally understand - well, at least I try to understand. Their world is turned upside down - it's scary, nothing is as it once was. There's a lot of new skills to learn, things to do. How terrifying it is to try to go out in society. I try to be...
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    Trouble in the V

    I still don't fully understand why she had the first affair - what I could have possibly done to deserve that. I ended up realizing that I still loved her. I loved her enough to cut her loose if that is what she wanted, or to forgive her and try to move forward. She decided that she still loved...
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    Trouble in the V

    So many responses! I thank each of you for your help. I'll try to answer some things... Yes, she stayed with me when I was in the Army - we have some long distance relationship time under our belts. It's rough - I didn't mind risking my life, but it's not easy for a spouse to be on board with...
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    Trouble in the V

    We do try to communicate a lot. I think it's definetly critical. Figuring out how to make communication better and actually productive is difficult. It seems like it always turns into open season on people's emotions and isn't that productive. We try to spend time together too. If we are doing...
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    Poly and sex

    My wife is the hinge in our V, with another male partner who is transitioning to female via estrogen therapy. My wife wanted us to have a threesome together, so we tried. It was a very odd experience. For me, it's just too much like cuckoldry now. I don't want to know - I don't want to...
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    Trouble in the V

    I'm having some difficulty in our V - and I may decide to stop being polyamorous. I wanted to put the situation out there, and see if perhaps there is something I can do to help make the situation better. Any advice is much appreciated. My back story: My wife and I have been married for over...
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    Why, Hello there :)

    Welcome to the forums. In my experiences, communication has been hugely important. Even if emotional attachment is still the rule, I would communicate it, and see what happens. Let everyone know you still want to abide by whatever makes them happy - but harboring emotions usually doesn't work...
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    Dropping a LoveBomb your way ;)

    Welcome to the forums - congratulations for the baby! If you select your whole message in the future and "copy" it, CRTL + C, before you send it... if you get timed out, you can then just relog on and "paste" it. It's helped me alot on different forums to just make that a habit.
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    Still reading the Master Thread

    Welcome to the forums, again!
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    Romanian girl says hi

    Welcome to the forums. I would like to visit Romania some day. It's on the hit list of places to see before I kick the bucket someday :D
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    25 f Tx

    Pleased to meet ya. Welcome to the forums.
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    Three Girls Surprised by Love

    Welcome to the forums. I hope things continue to go well for you.
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    Hello All

    Welcome to the forums!
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    Hello from Omaha!

    'Ello 'ello, and welcome to the forums.
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    Hello everyone!

    Welcome to the forums. Good luck going down the rabbit hole :D
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    Hi! =)

    Welcome to the forums :D Where y'all located at? I'm sure the folks around here will be able to help you. Lots of good information here.
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    Hello from rockford illinois

    Welcome to the forums from another Forum Newbie. My wife and I grew up in Rockford, spent a lot of time in the bad spots. We moved to Machesney Park - it is somewhat better, I think. At least the folks with guns here are more apt to check up on their neighbor's safety than to invade their...
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    'Ello, 'ello, Polyfolk...

    My wife and I grew up in Rockford. We live in Machesney Park now. Quite impressive to come across other poly folk within a few minutes driving distance! We would love to meet you both and talk, get to know you two, and compare experiences. I think it would be great to know people, in the flesh...
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