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    getting over the hurtle of jealousy..

    I'm doing the best I can with the jealousy and I know I will get there one day. To be completely honest with you.. I dont really have that many hobbies or interests other than playing games, music and going to festivals or club shows, TV/movies. I'm a vegan so thats a big thing but I dont want...
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    New/Not so new, but no bothers.

    Endusai recommended this to me and I've been finding it immensely useful after reading one day. The contract and exercises are great. Please take a look.
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    getting over the hurtle of jealousy..

    Good morning everyone. Great advice from you guys. I do know one thing about Blue. She has had flings with guys in the past without the kink and also had tryed to dste many. The only one that even began was due to the kink. She needs it in any form of relationship other than with her friends...
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    getting over the hurtle of jealousy..

    I really want to and will.. red has just made me feel like i should wait now.. i dont know how i should process this. Red talks to blue all the time and i believe has a better understanding of how blue feels about me than i do. I also feel like i need to disregard what red is suggesting and get...
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    getting over the hurtle of jealousy..

    I have been informed by red that i need to be a better caregiver before she would really feel any super strong feelings towards me. I know blues very into abdl as is red. I try to do my best with the kink but its hard for me to get in the mindset sometimes.. i think she feels im an inadequate...
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    getting over the hurtle of jealousy..

    This is a great idea, whenever we spend time together I'll be sure to write down my feelings and what happened through the course of the day to show me why I shouldnt be feeling this way. I'll probably see Blue next thursday - sunday or at least friday - sunday in which I plan to find a good...
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    getting over the hurtle of jealousy..

    Thank you very much Galagirl, I really know I needed to hear this. Its been a really emotional ride lately, I'm just being silly. I get emotional reading responses because it just helps me understand whats really going on in this whole situation and whats going on in my head subconsciously. I...
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    getting over the hurtle of jealousy..

    Continued thank yous for the responses. It helps when I'm feeling kind of mixed up. I've been with Red for past 6 years and have been through serious life crisises and she has always been there for me as a guide. She means everything to me.. Almost everyday is spent together as we live together...
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    New/Not so new, but no bothers.

    I'm brand new to the subject but just my 2 cents it sounds like you're just jealous that your wife is spending time alone with someone else and then talking a lot / constantly. I know that would bother me based on my recent personal experience at this point in my life. I hope someone can help...
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    getting over the hurtle of jealousy..

    I completely agree. I would love for that scenario to happen. Blue does live with a roommate or two (there were a lot I dont know how many have not moved out.) and her sister so I have to work around that if she agrees to it. It would definently have to be during the weekend because I have to be...
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    getting over the hurtle of jealousy..

    Galagirl, Sorry, I understand why it's confusing. It's confusing to me still.. 1. I'm doing the best I can to appease both women, emotionally, sexually, kink(ally? lol). I feel like it would be more sincere to ask Blue in person since she responds less through text than she does with me in...
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    getting over the hurtle of jealousy..

    We have veganism in common so dinner is always a good idea. There's not too many options around the vicinity but there's one in particular that is very nice. If we wanted to go somewhere i havent taken them both to at the same time I'd need to drive far away to her because we have been...
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    getting over the hurtle of jealousy..

    The vast majority of the time spent together is as a trio. Right now we are all in a very close relationship, my original partner wants to ask her to be her girlfriend. I am definently not at that level because I dont get the same quality of attention nor feel like I am. I want to take her on...
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    getting over the hurtle of jealousy..

    So, I've been living with my girlfriend and been with her for a very long time now. We've been in and out of relationships when we were much younger but at 19 or so weve been together pretty much ever since the first time we saw eachother after years later. She recently introduced me into...
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