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Yup, this is the crazy edge of everything, where I apparently learn best. And I know at least SOMEONE here has been through something similar. Wisdom from the experiences of others is generally where it's at, if people are willing to share. I know also there are millions of thoughts in my head...

Good points, everybody. Thanks especially for this: I wouldn't want to do that to someone either, especially if they were looking for a serious or dating-type relationship. This was my hurt talking, mostly. However, I have not ruled out a casual fling-type scene with someone (being totally...

Hi All, I have not posted much, and I'm so freshly new to polyamory it's insane. My husband and I started "negotiations" last month. Neither one of us has dated or anything else, outside of our relationship, so please bear with me. I hope this makes sense. He and I have become so close since...

We are on the west coast too... (Pacific NW) Welcome!!

I liked the "nautical" titles... :)

Perhaps a bit unconventional, but I've found that giving up sugar will stop recurrent yeast infections... this was just me though. Oh, and eating tons of plain yogurt. Best of luck :o ... I'm the survivor of many years of chronic yeast problems, I totally understand!!

It's what I fondly utter when I see one of our cats acting their usual "Krazy" self and/or doing something extra cute!! Also, I've been known to be a bit high-strung, so it kinda fits my personality at times . Also, one of my favorite artists is Louis Wain, who only drew cats (see avatar...

Oh yeah, it makes a lot of sense. He and I only want each other to be happy, after all. I'd already agreed to practicing polyamory, at some point, in the undefined future. It's definitely a big adjustment to what we'd had, but in some sense, not. I raised our daughter by myself for 13 years...

ImaginaryIllusion, yes, at the time, his attitude was very much "kid in a candy store," and that's probably a big part of why it felt so bad at first. I felt ignored, left behind. I guess I was already was feeling that way, but was not mentioning it. That's a huge part of all this, my own...

Wow. Thanks for the replies, all. Very insightful. In fact, I do realize a lot of this is my stuff, and that insecurity is a huge waste of time. Allowing for the idea of sex with other people is a risk, but it's brought benefits already, without having been acted on yet. In the week or so...

LOL Thanks for putting that particular aspect of our lives into perspective, YGirl. How about I call it, "Slightly less frequently than Krazykitty would prefer it to be in her ideal fantasy world, but still mind-bendingly awesome"? I guess that's a more realistic description.

Hi. My husband and I both agreed before marriage that when the time was right, we would become polyamorous or otherwise non-monogamous. I'm bisexual and have yet to be with a woman (not for lack of trying), so I thought naively that maybe this would initially take the form of a great threesome...

My husband and I have a gender-role reversal going on in our day-to-day life and both are really happy with that part of our lives. I've always been kind of a "guy-type girl," as I call it, and have never really wanted to cook, clean etc., just go to work. I work one full-time and one part-time...