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  1. SenatorBinks27

    Redpepper's journey

    I could have sworn I had read "honor." The post has been edited, but I could also have been projecting based on things that were said to me when my situation changed.
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    Covid-19

    1. EVERYONE has been grossly mishandling this, and while the Chinese government IS a giant fuck, and they DID start this mess, the truth is the blood is on a lot of government's hands. 2. Boycotts, especially on the scale you're suggesting, are notoriously unrealistic and ineffective. The best...
  3. SenatorBinks27

    Fun and Frolic With Long-Term Love

    The same thing happened to me in a Newberry Comics a while back, when the Gremlin situation first entered radio silence - I started tearing up when I saw a Nightcrawler comic (I played him for her in a very nice kink RP that was one of our best intimate encounters), then I turned around to find...
  4. SenatorBinks27

    Ghost of a Chance

    Still really numb from everything. I've been talking with someone platonic from OKC but most of the others seem to have given up on me, and until I get income in I don't feel comfortable putting out more feelers and giving a true search. I was cast in The Exonerated in an ensemble role. We're...
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    Fun and Frolic With Long-Term Love

    I hesitated before giving my support because, feeling low about myself, I was wondering if I had been the PR in my own situation. But now I know that's complete bunk - first off because I was leaving an abusive situation and you were nothing but supportive and encouraging, but also because of...
  6. SenatorBinks27

    Ghost of a Chance

    My first post in this thread has the link to my first thread detailing that story. Reader's digist version: She was my best friend before my marriage ended, my kink partner afterward, I loved her deeply the whole time and never had such a strong connection with anyone else even after NRE, and...
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    Ghost of a Chance

    It's 2 a.m. and I can't sleep. Everyone I know is a big advocate for therapy, and I am too for other people, but I've never had it be successful for me so even if I could afford it (which I can't), I would still be reluctant. Most of what I need is someone to vent to, who won't invalidate me or...
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    Ghost of a Chance

    So I was trying to play some video games to relax when the mail came. I got two things. The first was a letter from the State, saying I did not make enough money at my job to qualify for unemployment. The second was a box from Gremlin. Inside was my stuffed griffin and a handwritten note. The...
  9. SenatorBinks27

    Redpepper's journey

    As someone who had to leave an abusive relstionship, I'm not too keen on characterizing someone who doesn't - especially a man - as having "honor and integrity". I feel that just reinforces patriarchal biases that make it difficult for any victim to seek help for their situation and difficult...
  10. SenatorBinks27

    Change in all the areas of my life...

    It's only an addiction if it significantly hampers your ability to do other things you need to do and live the rest of your life. There is nothing intrinsically morally wrong with liking and having lots of sex. :D
  11. SenatorBinks27

    Ghost of a Chance

    When it rains, it pours. Yesterday I got a call from work. HR decided to terminate my employment. I have no goddamn clue what I'm going to do. I'll send out a few quick apps but I'm terrible at that and know I'm just going to end up in the same situation I was in before, but I need SOMETHING...
  12. SenatorBinks27

    Happy ILIC Day!

    God when I first read it I thought it stood for "I Love Ice Cream" day. Woof, shows you were my head's at.
  13. SenatorBinks27

    Recipe for disaster?

    Just joining the "Danger, Will Robinson!" crowd and saying do what is healthiest for you. I stayed too long in a toxic situation because I was afraid nobody else would want me, and while I am struggling on my own I do now know for a fact this is not true. I have a superhero complex too, but we...
  14. SenatorBinks27

    Ghost of a Chance

    Been a busy couple of weeks. Trying to gear up for my theatre start-of-season, taking LabRat to a whole bunch of CHD events. Tsunami is having mood issues we can't quite explain. Things with Marsh are very weird. We have neen having a lot of frank discussions about needs and expectations, and...
  15. SenatorBinks27

    In the garden

    "Have the shits" has an even more different, far more literal meaning in the US too.
  16. SenatorBinks27

    Ghost of a Chance

    Mags: Thank you so much for the compliments. ^\\\^ I actually have some background in writing. I find I'm better with collaboration and/or adaptation, but I did several volunteer columns for various sources over the years. Vinsanity: The vast majority of people "open to non-monogamy" at the...
  17. SenatorBinks27

    Ghost of a Chance

    So having said I'd give a nickname this time, I was hesitant because in the days since there has been almost no contact...but it was because life was getting in the way and the continued illness. So while I still don't know where things will end up with..."Cleric"...I'm still choosing to be...
  18. SenatorBinks27

    Newcomer

    Well I guess I should venture that I live in New England. I am extremely new to all this too on a practical level so I don't know how much help I can be, but I'm always happy to talk and connect.
  19. SenatorBinks27

    Better to look specifically for poly people to date?

    That's one of LabRat's favorites. I'm desensitized to it at this point.
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    Better to look specifically for poly people to date?

    I just wanted to thank you for getting that song stuck in my head, which happened the second I saw your username but before I noticed your sig and avatar proving the reference deliberate.
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