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I almost passed on a several-hundred point 99% match for mentioning that insulting "Jar Jar is a Sith" meme in a favorable light. I ended up sending an intro anyway, but mentioning I would fight for my boi. So I get it.

Wow, man reading all of that just gave me rushes of both good and bad feelings remembering times both long ago and not so long ago when similar emotions were felt for various persons. *reads back over* Hmm perhaps I'm not beung vague enough. Regardless, as a total newbie, welcome back and...

The Marvel Cinematic Universe. And I feel that's enough digressing, please don't let me derail the thread.

Agreeing with a lot of what has been said. With one little tiny unimportant exeption... "Brave" is not a "Disney Movie". It's a Pixar movie. Owned by Disney, sure. Trying to be pushed in its Princess brand, annoyingly. But not part of the Animated Canon. DAC and Pixar have vastly different...

So interesting development! OKC1 out of the blue decided to meet up with me after my theatre meeting yesterday, and we just hung out at a mall for a couple hours talking. It was just a really nice time being mutially open about Poly and Leftism and Mental Health and Geekery and it felt...

I think it's interesting you chose to bold that particular quote, because that's NOT monogsmist thinking - it's patriarchal thinking. And in fact for a man, it clashes with the monogsmist standard of "cheaters are no-good lowlifes that do not deserve to keep partners". The fact that men are fed...

Yeah, I never really thought about it either how my default way of thinking about and feeling whether or not I've had sex with someone is strictly in terms of PiV (though I have NEVER considered Lesbian sex to "not count," I simply lowered that bar in the absence of parts - which is still messed...

That's so sweet! (And sounds like something I would say). It's so nice when a lover points out something specific like that. ^_^

Still texting with OKC1 and now an OKC4 asked to text as well. I don't get really long-lasting vibes from OCK4 but the conversations have been good so I'll keep that up and see where it goes. LabRat had a checkup MRI yesterday which took all day and exhausted everyone. She seems to be...

OKC1 and I exchanged numbers for ease of communication, and things seem to be going in a good direction. Still too soon for a proper nickname, but wheels are turning. Unfortunately, my job suspended me for too many cash drawrs being over, no matter how dilligent I am. I'm scared about my...

Which is very much in line with what you and I have been discussing. Anxiety for change, for the routine to slip, is very common and can be difficult enough on its own without the importance that comes with this decision. Doesn't mean you should never trust anxiety, just don't use it on its own...

Had my first physical in years (ending the marriage sent me into insurance spirals and it took a while to get settled - seriously, fuck US healthcare and bring on single-payer universal) and aside from the usual "you should exercise more and lose a few pounds," my bloodwork numbers came back...

I'm kind of in the boat of "explore cautiously". Meet up as friends. If there's a spark, see where it leads without burning everything else. Obviously be transparent where you should be, obviously don't rush into anything and tread very carefully. But better to confirm chemistry in person -...

So OKC1 had to cancel our plans for an inditerminate length of time due to a chronic illness flaring up. This thing has prevented us from having good conversations since the first one. There's a paranoia that she's trying to get rid of me, but like I have to remind myself - she can easily block...

I mean, that's my goal too. When my (sadly former, details elsewhere) best friend introduced Poly to me, that's kind of how my imagination saw primary partners at least. Time will tell if the reality can be maintained, but I think it's what a lot of us are striving for on some level. Although...

PUBLIC SERVICE ANNOUNCEMENT: As someone with ASD, I just wanted to chime in and do some damage control (as the words Autism and Sociopath have often been used in the same breath to disparage those with ASD). While there are certainly many horrible people on the Spectrum, it is not indicative of...

It really depends on where you live vs where you're posting to. I know if you're from the US, for instance, half of folks want an escape from the massive dumpster fire calling itself a leader because it's depressing and emotionally exhausting, and another large contingent so refuses to accept...

Why, there's no such thing as "too" corny! Muahahaha! Though I did hear this joke about paper once, and it was TEARable! And this other joke about pizza was just a bit cheesy.

Good luck! Just make sure you always know where your towel is.

I spent one night back home this week, which felt good, and I'll likely spend another tomorrow night. Then more nights next week until I'm back to being home more often. I got an offer to meet from the one I've mentioned speaking to. Won't pick a full nickname until something really comes of it...