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This was both a real story (really trying to train to run a 5k) and a metaphor (really struggling with my wife and I in different places). I guess I should've been more clear. Thanks for the replies though - they did apply to both situations.

Just a quick update that the meeting went fairly well. I don't think he thought the life insurance question was funny though. It could have been in the delivery I suppose. He seemed nice enough. Not somebody I would be buddies with, but he clearly cares about my wife. And he was willing to...

Just for full disclosure, my wife is on the forum as well. She joined a while back and has encouraged me to join as well. She's one smart lady. In just a week I have found it to be helpful. Thanks! oh... yeah.. btw, her screen name is inlovewith2 (or something close to that). -DW

I am meeting a secondary for the first time Monday afternoon. In case you haven't read my intro yet, my wife is with 3 men besides me (her husband), and I refer to them as BF1, OSO1, OSO2. I am meeting OSO1. I have never met or talked with BF1. I have emailed a little with OSO2. Anyway, any...

Dear hurt, I can relate. And while that doesn't help your situation directly, I think seeing the number of replies from people who let you know that we feel/felt the same way can make you feel not so alone. You mention 'cheating'. Is that how you view it? You say you didn't mind her talking...

About a month ago I came up with a goal to get in better shape this year and really want to be able to run a 5k by the end of year. I've started training and I'm already bout 1/3 of the way there! My wife now wants to start training with me. I think it's great. She's never been a runner before...

Thanks! (and correct on the movie line - a great movie that I think I need another viewing of in the near future) I wasn't sure how much to post in this Intro vs. New to Poly section. But now I'm thinking I should give the background here so people who read my other posts and think 'Who is...

Ok, so my name is not really Inigo Montoya. If you know how to finish that line though you get bonus points. I just joined today. My spouse is poly. Not sure what I am. I *feel* mono. But I know that could be because that's all I've known. I am having a hard time with my spouse "all of a...