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  1. nicothoe

    When a Unicorn Plays in Other Pastures

    While you may not consider dating another guy, the same may not be true for the other woman. Being open to that possibility can only work to your advantage. By asking to be the only guy, it's as if Josh is stating that there is a difference between MF and FF relationships. This could be...
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    When a Unicorn Plays in Other Pastures

    I will admit that, like BlackUnicorn, I am a little apprehensive about any setup where the guy insists on being the only man in the relationship. It leads me to think, rightly or wrongly, that the man is threatened by other M-F relationships.
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    Tea and Crumpet

    Date tonight. Excited. Squeeeeee!
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    Couple-hunting in Unicornia

    There is a lot of stigma attached to HSV-2, the common cause of genital herpes, especially when you take into account that: Herpes Virus 1= Coldsores Herpes Virus 3= Chickenpox/Shingles Herpes Virus 4= Infectious mononucleosis/mono/glandular fever Herpes Virus 5= Infectious mononucleosis-like...
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    Self Esteem & Relationships

    Now I feel the urge to create a thread dedicated to painted toes. Where's my camera....?
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    I miss my family

    Would the relationship end because the wife demands it, because the girlfriend wants you for herself, or because you feel you have to make a choice?
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    Self Esteem & Relationships

    I did. He recommended that I go with a dark red in future.
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    Self Esteem & Relationships

    My toenails are a presently a pretty purple color.
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    Top Ten List

    For years, the wife and I had a top ten list; that is, a list of ten famous people if given the opportunity we would jump into bed with. It was the wife that introduced me to this game, long before we were open or had ever heard of the word polyamory. You can probably tell a lot about the...
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    considering poly but with a mono partner !!

    For years the wife and I used to joke with each other saying things like, "You'll do", "I think I'll keep you" and "You're my favorite." Since opening up the marriage, I find myself replacing the last one with "You're my favorite wife."
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    When a Unicorn Plays in Other Pastures

    There is a reason they are called unicorns. I'm not sure whether that is because they are magical, or that they really don't exist.
  12. nicothoe

    Desire

    To re-iterate what Opalescent said, make it a habit to keep everything that happens in the bedroom completely and utterly private. Granted, some people may be voyeurs and enjoy hearing stories, but usually the reasons for wanting to know are not good ones. Knowing something is likely to trigger...
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    Desire

    I think you hit the nail on the head when you implied that a lot of our desire is always for the things we don't already have. That 72" television we see in the store looks totally awesome, and we can't stop imagining it hanging in our home. Yet the moment we have it, sure, we love, we enjoy...
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    Tats & Piercings?

    I have no tattoos and no piercing, but all three of the women in my life do. In fact, one of the women is the tattoo artist for the other two. Some days I worry about how the girlfriend stares at my nipples and mutters "Hmmmmmmm..."
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    Tea and Crumpet

    Tuesday is my regular date night with Writer, but this week, she was sick. A cold. We rescheduled for Thursday, in the hope she was feeling a little better. She wasn't. But I wanted to see her anyway, and I knew the feeling was mutual. We spent the evening chatting in her bedroom, ordered...
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    I miss my family

    Only the truth works. Questions... How long has the wife known about the girlfriend, and is this something she is okay with? Would moving back home with the wife signal an end to the relationship with the girlfriend?
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    Poly on the Rocks

    I don't think it is unreasonable to ask him to curb his dating for a while, especially as your need for him is greater at this moment. If it was someone he had been seeing for years, then perhaps that is a different matter. The real issue that needs to be addressed is your insecurity, the fear...
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    How can I be "less"?

    There are probably some married couples out there that spend less time together than people who see each other a few times a week. Some men may actually see their administrative assistants more than they see their wives. I guess you can't categorize a "full-time" relationship as seeing someone...
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    polynymmory, jealousy, and nympersion

    Hmmmmmm, chips! Soaked in vinegar and covered in salt. yummy
  20. nicothoe

    History of Love (& Sex & "romance")

    Bare in mind that I have never read Sex At Dawn, and this "theory" comes from my own musings without any evidence to back it up. *grin* It more based on an observation that: 1) men and women like sleep with multiple people 2) men and women typically don't like our partners sleeping with...
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