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    Fell for a monogamous woman

    So, I have to say first of all that I am extremely new to this polyamorous thing, but basically I have figured out that I am capable of loving more than one person. I have a fantastic primary partnership, where she is sexually non-monogamous but not emotionally non-monogamous. I, however, have...
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    How do you rebuild trust after lying/cheating has taken place?

    So, I am not so much interested in advice, as hearing from others what happened in their relationships when cheating/lying occurred and how they dealt with it. Does anyone have experiences where you were able to trust again? What did it take? I spoke about this in a previous post today. I am...
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    Help! New to Non-monogamy and Having Trust Issues Now

    Hey all, So I posted a few times last year but have not been back on in quite sometime. I will try to summarize our background and then go into the current situation: I've been with my girlfriend now for 2 years and about 4 months. At the beginning of our relationship, she voiced to me...
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    I just want to cry

    Does anyone else experience this? I think I just need to know that I am not alone in this. Even just the thought of my girlfriend being with someone else sexually makes me want to cry right now. I know I have abandonement issues and our non-monogamous relationship sets the stage for that to...
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    Negotiating Rules

    Anyone have a fairly exhaustive list of rules and sexual behaviors for negotiating non monogamous relationships?
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    It feels like I'm walking through fire

    I've been with my girlfriend now for a year and about 4 months. At the beginning of our relationship, she voiced to me that it is important for her to have the option available to hook up with other people outside of her primary relationship. She qualified that it would probably rarely happen...
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