Search results

Derbyliscious is a user here who is from Victoria and might have some info on the community there. The Vancouver groups are pretty active and link to http://www.vanisle-polyamory.com If you're not in Victoria or nearby hopefully they have some other resources further up island.

Here's the things that come to mind for me. I would spend some time figuring out what specific parts of the experience didn't work. Like 2 weeks was too close together for him. Does he think once a month is more reasonable? does that work for you? or is it less about the actual time and about...

I am a big fan of periods of cooling off when a relationship goes through a "transition". If you need time apart, or time of no physical contact then ask for it, and don't be worried about adjusting your needs as time goes on.

My experience is that is very common for people who are poly to mention it in their profile as well as list themselves as available or single as might be the case. I know that if I saw someone listed as available and they didn't expand in their profile what that meant I probably wouldn't...

I think when you don't feel that sadness it because it's the right thing to do. You have emotionally disconnected from what was there and it's time to move on. Also, maybe it has to do with knowing that you still have great supportive partners who will be there if you need it. Makes letting go...

I just made my first post a few minutes ago, so I figure it's time to post an actual intro. In May my relationship of 4 years ended. We had been in an open relationship for a bit over a year and it wasn't the cause of the break up. On reflection I actually think the poly part was working so...

Can you give us some details of what she's tried, and her perspective on why things aren't working out that might help you get some more specific advise. Also, I always fall back to what Dan Savage says about this: every relationship fails until 1 doesn't.