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Hello everyone it's me again! More advice needed. So it's been quite a few months since I started dating this couple. I will call my girlfriend, Bee and my boyfriend Arr. They are married and have been for nearly a decade. I have been dating Arr for about 9 months and Bee for 8 months. We have...

I was so excited for the premier. I just couldn't watch it since I have cable. What a bummer!

I agree, it would be nice if I could just take it as fact. I wasn't depressed, but that comes and goes. However, I was not the happiest when entering either of the relationships. I am starting to file each of the things I am having issues with away. They are dimming their lights, but not quite...

Omg, I relate on such a level with you! I know that feeling. The same thing is said to me. They have expressed I am NOT a secondary and there is no hierarchy. I am trying to be realistic though. I feel I am, and at the moment I am handling it. I think very well. I too have a horrible time...

Not so much that I am not apart of their marriage. I do feel tons of jealousy at times though. The fact that I can not get legally married with either of them started to bother me. Even though it's not really something that I want at the moment. I don't get to spend time with them like they get...

Well, you are not alone in what you are going through. I am going through something very similar as I am dating a married couple. I am trying to find what it is about marriage that I actually really want. Mostly I think it's being barred from a hospital bed if one of my partners is sick. That...

I think I am going to give it a shot. My new guy is okay with it, maybe even happy about it really. It's just so new to all of us, as I have never dated both members of a married couple.

And even better news, maybe I should make a new thread? Anyway, so the new guy and I have been dating a month. I've been hanging out with his wife a lot. We kind of just clicked. Which normally does NOT happen. To make a long story short she asked me out. I am feeling super happy and a bit...

So, I didn't get to update. I broke up with the jerk. I made it very clear we were not together anymore. I than took him off everything. Thanks for all the advice guys. Now onto some better news, because who doesn't like good news anyway? I stayed with the new guy at his house with his wife...

Yeah, I always believe communication is key. Plus, if I can't have a decent conversation with the person, why bother?

You don't have to ask me twice! So I met this gentleman almost a year ago while I was out with friends at a munch. The moment he walked in I couldn't help but smile. I leaned over to a friend of mine just to tell them how cute I thought he was. I noticed his wedding ring, so I held back from...

Thank you so much for your advice. I think I am going to do just that. If he msgs me, i'll just tell him it's over and be done with it. Otherwise we will just go back to no contact at all. Seems to be his strong suit anyway. I have better things to do with my time, like growing a new healthy...

Soooo just not say anything and just cut communication? Yeah, I can do that. It was rather off and I really did not like it what so ever. This new relationship is so much better. Everything is going so well and I feel happy. Truly happy!

I think you are right! Now it's just figuring out if I just should stop talking them all together or wait until they come back here to do it in person.

That's exactly how I feel. Thank you for the input! I really do appreciate it.

So, I know I have been absent from the forums. Sorry about that! I just wanted to update on the LDR. It has not been working out and it is barely holding onto the last thread. The good communication ceased a little after the last time I had posted on this forum. Me and this partner didn't...

So, I am finally back from my trip and well enough that I can post. First off the trip was horrible! However, the meeting was amazing. I enjoy the company I was able to get and it was great meeting my partners other partner. We are already planning another trip which will hopefully go much...

I am a little more cautious. I think that is a good thing. It allows me to not stress if something unexpected happens.

@nycindie I do! I have emergency transportation as backup, I have tacker on my phone. I have the address where I will be and who I will be with, and when. I have backups on my backups with backups. (I get super nervous!) We have only been dating for a little over a month but I have known the...

So, I have been dating this person for about a month and a half now. We live across country from each other and I am taking the leap to fly out to meet him and his girlfriend. We are both poly and both have primary partners. I will be meeting both him and his primary at the same time. I am not...