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Smirk Sorry it's been so long. I have had a hectic month at work and it's ongoing. *sigh* Hmm...let's see...what part of Florida is that? My sister lives outside of Miami and I'm supposed to visit this year. I may have to do some recruiting. :P

Hiya Welcome to the forum. um, though pink is lovely, it's bad on the eyes on a computer screen. :D

Hiya I'm glad you are able to work through the situation in a positive way. I know there will be ups and downs, there always are in general, but you have a great attitude so I'm sure you will do fine. Welcome! *hugs*

Moving Upward and Onward I've had an interesting 'since my birthday'. Since I was in a totally new space than where I was when I met P and H, in the earlier part of last year, it seems like the Universe was waiting for me to let go of the dead end and unbalanced situation so the path could be...

Thanks, TP!

*hugs* One thing I've learned throughout dealing with people, in general, is that you cannot help or hinder what they choose to take personally. Most times, there is something of themselves they see in a situation in order to take it personally to begin with. Her failure to (1) see that you are...

Yea...scenario sounds familiar on various levels. The signs were definitely there, though, so I'm glad you went with your first instinct and began the disconnection. Glad you have acknowledged the disappointment but, ultimately, have taken it in stride. That's where I am...already on my next...

*hugs* Distance and time apart can help with the demise of a relationship (I think my work travel for the last 6 weeks of 2010 helped do my relationship in) but, I truly believe, the foundation of that relationship has to already be going through some major turmoil or not so sturdy to begin with...

How long did you tell V she could stay? I think, maybe, you should tell her about you and Mal. Since she doesn't know, it would allow her to discuss more things with you about her experiences and ideas and, in turn, you can do the same. Glad school is still coming along and you are finding the...

It seems that you are working through things just fine, RP. I agree with much of what you, Mono, and Derby have said. Though there are basic guidelines to how we do this thing, and so many people want to play the poly role, but haven't the slightest idea how, you guys are speaking it and doing...

Well, it sounds like you guys are diligently working towards growth and knowledge which is always great. I wish you the best.

Alive and intact is good. *hugs*

Happy belated birthday. There are a lot of us with early January birthdays, eh? Cool!

Yea...that is a big downfall but can't that be negotiated? It is unfair that you have to endure the energy left behind by whatever issues he may be dealing with in his other relationships. I mean, I know we all have our moods and our own ways of dealing with things but, in a way, it's similar to...

That is wonderful, RP. I'm feverishly seeking a local network of active poly folk myself. I just rejoined a local meetup group that I unjoined last year due to a lack of activity. Looks like the activity has picked up though in the new year, so we shall see. I'm not far from the Loving More...

This is wonderful to hear. You guys are funny with all the hammer talk. *hugs*

:( about Mr. A. Happy belated. My birthday was on the 13th. :D

Sorry I'm late to the party, TL. It's been a hectic week. Though I can see where everyone is coming from, to me, I perceive most of V'a actions in the same light that you do, especially, since I've endured much of the same over the the last few months. We can always try to project our thoughts...

@sourgirl- that is the source of my pulling back as well (losing patience which also takes a while and my blunt tongue issuing more pain than I mean to cause). Sorry to see you go. @ariakas- well, it seems that you have been taking a lot of time for some introspective learning which is always...

Official Birthday Break-up The season finale took place by way of ecard on Thursday evening, January 13th - my birthday. P sent me an ecard wishing me happy birthday. Within the ecard he acknowledged that he (even though it should have said 'we') mishandled the relationship and he has thought...