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Wow, much more to DADT than I thought. Dirty secret definitely doesn't apply to H or E. I need to rethink how I've been describing it. I guess I'd say that what I've been calling our DADT relationship centers on privacy, not secrecy. J knows that when I "have plans" it's with one of them, but...

Thoughts on "don't ask don't tell" I don't see too many posts from people in a don't-ask-don't-tell poly situation. It's really worked for J and I, and I'm not sure I see a negative side to it, but wasn't sure if others had opinions or experiences to share. H and I have a similar relationship...

Hello to all! Just joined the site after reading for a while. I've been in a poly situation for about five years without really realizing it. My husband and I have been married almost seven years, and decided early on that we were OK with a don't-ask-don't-tell type of relationship, and neither...