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    New to poly and in need of advice

    Well, sadly, it does not appear that she is ok with a V situation, and after a lot of thought, I just simply don't feel towards her what she would like me to feel. Oh well. I've gotten over heartbreak before. I suppose that, eventually, I will get over this one, too.
  2. R

    New to poly and in need of advice

    Thank you all for your advice, replies, encouragement. I think mostly I am just afraid of someone getting hurt, but I suppose that is a risk you take with any relationship. I do believe that, in the beginning, they did have some expectations that this was going to be a fairly equal triad...
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    New to poly and in need of advice

    Tonberry, When we originally sat down and talked about this, yes it appeared as thought it was all or nothing. Some rules were put in place in the beginning about sex when one of the two of them wasn't there. Since then, trust has been built up, and those rules have been able to become a bit...
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    New to poly and in need of advice

    Hi there. A few months ago, some friends of mine (a married couple of 15 years) asked me if I would like to join their relationship. None of us had ever experimented with polyamory, and to be honest, the idea never really came up in my life. I knew that I was attracted to both of them as...
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