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All, I am the hinge in a V with my husband and my married (poly) OSO. I was pretty happy with the situation until a few months ago. Where I am having trouble is that my husband does not currently have an OSO and is extremely unhappy about that situation. His unhappiness is permeating all...

Thanks! I'm sure there will always be little bumps in the road (see post about Metamour), but overall, I couldn't imagine going back to monogamy!

Metamour's passive/aggressive behavior Little background: I am the hinge in a V with my husband of 20+ years and BF who lives locally and is in a happy poly marriage as well. Both BF and I came to polyamory because our spouses really needed it to be happy. We found each other and are...

I knew before I married my husband that he would not be monogamous for the rest of our lives, but I believed that I could deal with it in short spurts and although I'd never really embrace it, I'd endure. We've been married for over 23 years. He did cheat once during a period when we weren't...

I am a happily married woman, the hinge in a closed V with my husband and equally happily married poly boyfriend who lives locally. BF and I have been together for about 9 months, are very much in love, fluid bonded, and expect our relationship to be long term. My husband does not currently...

We have found that having a shared google calendar really works for us. We created one that all of us can access (myself & my husband, my bf & his wife). We enter things on this shared calendar that affect our availability for dates and locations for dates. This way, when one of us wants to plan...

Thank you all for the input. I'm going to find a time when he's calm and talk to him about another avenue to vent. I want to know what's going on with him and I'm his best friend, the person in whom he feels most comfortable confiding, but I can only take so much negativity. I know he's going...

Hi, My husband (hubs) and I have been married for 23 years, being open on and off since the beginning. Up until now, those periods were unsuccessful because I wasn't participating, just allowing him to seek sex in other places. For the past 9 months we've been open and poly. He had a gf, but...

Truth, Your situation sounds a little like mine. I knew before I married my husband that he would not be monogamous for the rest of our lives, but I believed that I could deal with it in short spurts and although I'd never really embrace it, I'd endure. We've been married for almost 23...