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UPDATE Wow, so much has changed over the last few months. My wife and I have become legally separated and her relationship with her new boyfriend is progressing slowly but surely. As for me, I have become sort-of caught up in a poly-relationship of my own. I am the 2nd boyfriend of my...

I should clarify, the new boyfriend is someone she has known for awhile. So from her perspective she doesn't think she's rushing into anything.

It's insane. The guy lives across the country and promises to look for work in our area and move here, so my wife can still be close to our daughter when they move in together. In the meantime, she still lives with my daughter and I, but not as a wife - more like a room mate. We sleep in...

Well, that was short-lived. Wife was cool with going poly for awhile but it wasn't cool with her new boyfriend. Now I'm single and she's evidently back to being monogamous (with the other guy, not me). I'm more interested in polyamory than ever now, though. I think. I'm more than happy to...

That's a major part of my problem. I'm not sure what I want/need yet. I'm searching.

Interesting comment because I'm constantly wondering if I'm TOO nice. I've been told by my therapist that I don't stand up for what I want enough.

Thanks for the advice and support. I really need it. :)

Background: My wife and I were raised in a very strict religion (one might even call it a cult) and we married when I was 21 and she was 24. Neither of us have ever been with anyone else. Ever. A couple years ago we managed to extricate ourselves from the cult and have discovered a world full...