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I'm not saying I've never done exactly what she did but this was the first time she's been able to meet me for lunch without having to schedule first in the 5 years we have been married. This was totally on whim. My thoughts are that if she's willing to come in and spend time with me she...

Wednesday - Midday Madness For lunch today my wife met me in town and we went out. It was a really nice gesture but we talked very little and I got a little irritated with her when she got her phone out to talk to LA. At first she got it out just to read what his text had said and put it away...

THANK YOU! I've had sex and not gotten off before and been fine with it. I've also gotten off and wanted to continue. Almost every time I had to have a discussion with the other party involved to tell them that everything was fine and nothing was wrong. It's not always about the guy! I get way...

I. Am. Jealous! If you're enjoying yourself then no, it's not too much. If you feel like its a chore then probably yes, too much. We can't tell you how much you want or need but your body can only produce so much at any given time and if you're tapped then you're tapped.

First of all, welcome! It sounds like you've been very understanding so good for you. On to the subject at hand, if you aren't jealous or envious then what's the problem? You seem to be nervous that she may leave you. If you're worried about it then figure out why. Confront her about it but...

Tuesday - A Lonely Day This morning I woke up and did not feel well. I imagine exhaustion played a part but I felt much more tired than usual. I called in saying I would come in an hour late and stay an hour late and went back to sleep. Eventually I got up and made it into work and spent most...

Monday - A Distant Voice If my life were a vinyl record... Side A of Monday (not to be confused with A, the girl I'm talking to) Monday started out normally for me even though I am totally not motivated at work. This is my last week in my current job and I just can't be bothered to deal with...

I gave up jealousy when I was very young. It was incredibly difficult but it allows me to be poly today. He needs to look inside himself and figure out what's causing him to feel jealous. Then he needs to kill that. Very few people can do that but if he can be will be a lot happier. He has to...

This story almost sounds too good to be true! I wish it worked out that nicely and effortlessly for everyone! Congrats and welcome to this little corner of the Internet. November, I'm a crazy geek as well. Maybe there's something to be said for geeks and poly! I'm also left handed and everyone...

Day 2 ends I woke up this morning with the kids and let my wife sleep in. We tend to alternate who gets to sleep in but lately I've been making and effort to take the mornings to give her much needed peace and quiet. I also kind of relished in the opportunity to text A for two hours. Which I...

Welcome! I'm pretty big into punk rock as well. Been in a few punk bands. Nice to see others with the same interests!

I haven't but if you are all comfortable with each other and you are all responsible it shouldn't be a problem. Just make sure you discuss the logistics like bills and chores and groceries. Nothing ruins a relationship faster than money and maintenance.

Later that night/the next morning Haha, thanks to both of you. I doubt you'd be saying the same if you knew me in person. I suck telling stories. I always leave out important details and pause and all kinds of shit. Anyway... I just got back from the third of four birthday parties I had this...

I've been considering starting a blog on here for some time. I just never know what to say first. I suppose I could make this a continuation of my thread (found: here). Since that week my wife has found someone (J) nearby that she can spend time with and I met someone (A) that lives several...

Those people sound like they are swingers. When I was on a swinger forum (before I found this awesome place) there were stories on there all the time just like this. Only, the people there werent poly so it was more jus the "ugh that guy is a pig" instead of the "I'm hurt" reaction.

If it quacks like a duck surely it's a witch and you should burn it! Burn it! She turned me into a newt! ... It got better... Anyone get the monty python reference? Anyway my point is don't assume things.

I've been with my wife for 5 years, closed marriage. She's been unhappy. We opened our marriage earlier this year. She's finally talking to me and it feels like we are making progress in our marriage. She's still unhappy but it's all very new. You decide. Ironically I brought up polyamory...

Take a look at my thread sometime. You'll see you're not alone. Before I met my wife I was a loner. I played video games and was a recluse the entire time I wasn't working. Now I'm a socialite and it's so freaking hard to just sit back and relax. I wish you luck. You just need to find ways to...

I think she meant she was talking to someone else as more than friends. That's how I read it.

Would it be beneficial to just show her this thread? It seems like you have expressed yourself fairly well and putting it in writing makes it easier.