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My wife and I were struggling to find people as well. Then we went to some local gatherings and a few BDSM parties. Turns out, they were all hiding there! *shrug* You should look for groups in your area. I'm sure some of the Californians on this site will have some tips of where to look. I know...

We live about 3 hours south of you guys. The Chicago-area crime is spreading down this far, even. You'll have to pick a different state if you want to escape it.

Ah, then I did misunderstand. Sorry about that. Tonight is my first night on 3rd shift, and I've been at work for 10 hours. It's been pretty rough. Back on track, I could see how an intimate moment with someone else like that would be hard to see. I also know that alcohol does not help...

I went back through some of your earlier posts to get an idea of how you felt about your partners. You say you love more than one person, but you get upset when he gave her this special look "meant only for you"? Maybe it's just too late/early for me and I'm understanding this incorrectly, but...

Speaking from experience, my one shred of advice is to TAKE IT SLOW! Don't force anything, and don't move fast even when it "feels right". It's not a race and if you go to fast you risk someone getting cold feet. Especially when the four of you are tugging for that blanket at night.

Sunday - Lost in Transit It's 2 AM on a Sunday, and I'm beginning to wonder if I made a mistake by switching to these new hours. I recently decided to switch to a 4x10 schedule that was also 3rd shift. Upside: More time at home when my kids are awake. Downside: More time at home when my kids...

Why is it impossible for him to be supportive of her current relationship status and also want to date her? Clearly she's not exclusive, so his interest in her isn't taboo. I'm very supportive of my prospective girlfriend's marriage. I still want to date her. Granted, I'm not mono, but it...

I normally talk about my primary relationship and try to balance my discussions between primary and secondary in my blog. Since it's been a couple hours and no one has responded, I'll start this out. In the past 6 months I have had 3 separate "secondary" relationships begin to form. One of them...

You took that right out of my journal, didn't you?

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Awesome! Glad to hear it's going well for you then. :)

I'm the same way. :) Your story doesn't sound all that strange to me. So what if you were a late bloomer? Not everyone needs to be 15. It's better to wait. Society just wants you to believe otherwise. Is M good for both of you now?

Based on the context, that's how I read it. Especially considering she said there's a relationship between her first and second sister. I'd like some clarification as well. I dislike the sister wives titles for this reason. I understand it's to make people more accepting but that's because it's...

Australia's linguistics is very similar to Europe, since it's a former colony. So that makes sense too. So do you say mom or mum? I still say the thought of King Tut taking care of my kids is scary!

Are you from Europe? Spelling "mommy" as "mummy" seems to be something they do. It gives me nightmares. Welcome to the forum. I would say you were a unicorn but now you're just a third of the triad.

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Good job! Now cut off all contact with him and keep it that way. Don't let him back in.

I <3 you too!!!

I mentioned gonorrhea earlier in this thread. I just found this poster. It made me laugh. You can't beat the axis if you've got VD!

Damnit! I knew I skipped something in my reply. That right there should have been the end of the relationship. "I don't want to set expectations" is the same as saying, "I don't want to be honest with you, so I'm avoiding things and leading you on."