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Well, after talking with him and the counselor in an individual setting I'm finally going to listen to literally everyone else but my brain. I told him this arrangement was hurting me and I needed some space from it all. We are still amicable, but I realize I need to focus on myself more before...

Fair, and that's what it may be. I'm still curious enough to try, though. I've been doing a lot of work on myself, and most days I'm more okay than not. I just had a really bad day and was spiraling a bit when I posted the first time.

I don't know if he truly wants poly forever. He's never tried before. Actually, out of the three of us, I probably have the most experience, but like you, that was my younger days. I might be doing exactly what you had to go through right now. I'm not (completely) delusional about this...

Thank you for those resources. I will definitely be looking into them. For what it's worth, he's said he would never leave me for another woman, and I know he loves me deeply. And yes, excuses, but I can't help it. I love him. I can see the growth and healing he's done in the time we've known...

Thank you for the questions. Some I can answer, some I honestly have to think about for a while. Yes, all parties know and consent. We can date other people. We just have an agreement to be open about it, and let each other know, if that's the case. I have gone on a few dates that he does know...

Hi everyone, I'm new to this world and looking for some advice on how to navigate a very tender, complex situation. I (42F, never married, no kids) recently reconnected with my long-term partner (47M, divorced, three kids). We've been together for about two years, though it’s been on and off...

I'm new here and just beginning to explore polyamory in a more intentional way. I'm a woman in my 40s, recently rekindled a relationship with someone I love deeply and have been through a lot with over the last two years. We're now trying to navigate a nontraditional dynamic together. He has...