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    i just need to vent :(

    I was under the impression that this was something he wanted to do for himself since he is also so new to this, and then he would share his experiences with me over the weekend as it went on. You're right, its not so scary, and reading your comment has sort of put my insecurities in...
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    i just need to vent :(

    thank you. we have planed to discuss everything, and in general have great communication within our relationship. Waiting to hear is always more painful, i like to know whats going on. I think i am seeing this convention as a giant step as opposed to the baby ones we have been taking, and its a...
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    i just need to vent :(

    Open SF is this weekend. I have known about it for months. I knew it was coming. I read things on the site, and informed myself to the things that will be going on. I just can't stop thinking about it. Panic. Nervous. Insecure. My boyfriend wants to go, and I want him to go too, but I am...
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    poly/mono baby steps

    thank you everyone for the supportive feedback. It is so comforting to know I am not alone.. sooo comforting. Would anyone mind sharing some of their stories with me about the beginning of their relationships with their mono or poly partners? I feel like i have a road map with no path on it...
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    poly/mono baby steps

    Thank you so much! It is definitely a huge weight off my shoulder to hear all these positive comments. Can you direct me to Sage's website so i may see her writing?
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    poly/mono baby steps

    Recently, within the past two months. The seminar was by far the most challenging thing by far, but he has been great about asking me about my needs and taking things slow. SO I want to honor that by being ok with him doing his events as well.. its still just.. hard.. and i never know how i am...
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    poly/mono baby steps

    hello poly thread, I have lurked these threads for a while now, finally having the courage to ask for advice. I am a mono in a new poly relationship. :confused: I am very new to this, and doing the best I can to stay as open minded as possible. I love my partner and I want him to be able to be...
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