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    Always a Struggle?

    I actually had a decent talk with the boyfriend tonight. He is really upset about his friend not accepting our relationship. He has distanced himself a bit because he is unsure about the future of our relationship. His head sees the end result as us not being friends if we get too far. He...
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    Always a Struggle?

    Unfortunately the messages have popped up when I have been using the phone with his permission and people text at the wrong time. Another message came through when his phone was sitting next to me on the couch. He also tells me when his phone starts blowing up its his friend in the other...
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    Lurker making an introduction

    I have been lurking on this site for almost a year now. I have made very few posts, I should probably fix that. I am 33 years old in the Northern California area, and I have been married for 13 years to the man I met when I was in junior high. He is currently deployed for the military so I am...
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    Long time lurker who now needs a hand...

    Time for introduction Welcome! I am sorry I made that post originally I was trying to create a new thread!
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    Always a Struggle?

    I am on the fifth month of my second poly relationship. It has been such an up and down thing, I think I am just burning out. My dear wonderful husband was having issues and insisting he didn't want me to give up my second relationship because of his issues. He has since settled down mostly...
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    Am I over thinking it?

    *update*. So the meeting didn't go as planned. My hubby spent most of the party with his family and not trying to interact with him. He had to leave to a friends engagement party and was supposed to come back but that didn't work out. Things felt really different the two times I saw him...
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    Am I over thinking it?

    We are actually driving down the day before the party. My sister who I am not open with and introduced us invited him. I don't know what is more comfortable... being surrounded by people you know or one on one with me? I have never done this before.
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    Am I over thinking it?

    Well when I asked him what was going on during a webcam chat a week ago he said he has just been really busy, he can't wait to see me when I get in, and can't I just hold on until I see him before being upset about how different things have been. He said he would show me his feelings haven't...
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    Am I over thinking it?

    They have not met each other yet, and I am hoping that fixes issues on my husbands side. He has been feeling a bit insecure at times and I have had to give him lots of reassurance. Our first poly relationship has made him uneasy about me falling in love with anyone. He doesn't want to see me...
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    Am I over thinking it?

    I have been married to my beautiful husband for thirteen years. He has always been more of the adventurous type and he is the reason I started my first poly relationship. It started as a year long discussion about having a threesome and flirting with an online friend I had for years. I have...
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