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Not only should you discover what you want, but what he wants too. Communicating your true desires is hard to do, but very much worth it when you can both do it; and along the way find common ground on which to build a bridge to compromise.

Also, on a related note Oxygen got auto-banned and her posts were deleted. I really appreciate what she said so far, and regret that others can no longer read it because it could paint her in a less than positive light that it appears she hasn't yet responded.

I really appreciate the discourse. The bottom line is that, for me, adding more complexity would muddy the waters and make it harder for me to tell which way was up with regard to my emotions. This may or may not happen at a later date, but now is not the time.

Oxygen, I will always grow with you. All you have to do is hold out your hand and be patient with me. I love you from earth to sky, from beginning to end.

I'm talking about time and attention to my feelings; mostly about walking down a pathway toward a polyamorous lifestyle with her. I needed to know that if I was going to do this with her, that she was going to provide me with support and understanding, not just whipping me with her NRE with W...

After W moved out, we took a few steps together to try things out. The pattern was basically: try something new out, feel ok while it was happening, get caught up in my head feeling weird about it the next day, flip out a bit, be reassured by my wife, try something else out, repeat. The new...

JG, thanks for the vote of confidence. Things will definitely get easier as time goes on. I haven't really considered dating, but the possibility is exciting. I don't want my wife to feel that I'm doing something in retribution though. And I definitely don't want to bring in another source for...

Hello All, I'm a mono male married to a poly female. We have been together for six years and married for almost five years. We have two boys, ages 3 and 1. My wife (she will be on the board shortly) was non-monogamous before she met me, but decided to try monogamy out for me. About a year ago...