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  1. U

    new to poly (surprise! ha!) and wondering how to negotiate

    Crazy, right? Even crazier is that I have a new friend!:)
  2. U

    new to poly (surprise! ha!) and wondering how to negotiate

    an update So... I emailed the other girl - she had NO idea of my existence, and we just spoke on the phone. When she got my email, she was at his place, and was understandably freaking out - but he wasn't home. She wound up confronting him, and he said I was a "crazy bitch". Funny thing is...
  3. U

    new to poly (surprise! ha!) and wondering how to negotiate

    We're supposed to speak on Sunday. Given the way that I feel right now, I'm ready to break up. But also, the advice you gave me, SourGirl (re: letting someone hang by their own rope...) is pretty en pointe and probably a good course. I can almost predict his reaction, and that'll be my cue to...
  4. U

    new to poly (surprise! ha!) and wondering how to negotiate

    Thanks to all of you - it's opened up my eyes a little more to the situation (my GOD it's so easy to be blinded by love, yes??), saw my therapist this morning and feel a little less angsty about it. I actually would like to speak with this girl. I know who she is, where she works - what's odd...
  5. U

    new to poly (surprise! ha!) and wondering how to negotiate

    "hopefully" is the operative word, RP. I think he's consumed with the NRE he's found in this other girl and is completely distracted from dealing with our own issues. It's a vast and deep hurt and if I'm being honest, I don't know how much more I'm willing to take.
  6. U

    new to poly (surprise! ha!) and wondering how to negotiate

    I'm really not okay with it (his seeing this girl) - not at this stage of things. He's failing to see that we need time to get on more solid ground. Am I being selfish about it?
  7. U

    new to poly (surprise! ha!) and wondering how to negotiate

    thanks, Lady! (funny I say that every day to the girls I work with) :)
  8. U

    new to poly (surprise! ha!) and wondering how to negotiate

    Forgive the lengthiness of this, there seems to be a lot in my head right now... When I met my bf, things were perfect for the first 3 months. Communication was incredible, in fact, I'd never felt so close to someone. He admitted that he hadn't been able to be as honest with someone else in a...
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