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  1. Nudge

    Past trauma resurfacing

    Thank you for posting your story. You are a very strong person, and I admire your ability to rebuild your life under incredibly challenging circumstances. Even if your only reason for declining sex work was out of a lack of interest, and you had an idyllic childhood, Tommy has no business...
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    I don't know what the right thing to do is.

    I think you're getting some good advice here. I may be able add a little something given that I originally identified as mono, and my spouse initiated the poly exploration in our relationship. You may have known about your partner's poly desires 20 months ago, but you have only started to work...
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    Greetings from New England

    Well, maybe MY particular state is a bit more staid (or steady, perhaps?). Also doesn't help that I work in finance. Bankers and their sort are not typically demonstrative. Well, howdy neighbors! Look forward to hearing more from you.
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    Greetings from New England

    Outed! :D Well, New England does have some pretty sweet people <3
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    Small world, Kitten ;-)

    Small world, Kitten ;-)
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    Greetings from New England

    I would have laughed, but my upper lip is too stiff. :D I guess I shouldn't have started by disparaging my region; I meant it mostly in jest. The poly scene does seem a lot less lively here than in most other regions, though.
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    Relationship labels: possessiveness or connectivity

    +1 I have friends (though I wouldn't say I possess them) who prefer to utilize the pronoun 'ou.' It would be unfair to refer to ou in any other way. If a spouse is comfortable being refered to as 'your spouse' then just do what you're comfortable with. If not, respect his/her/ou choice. Also...
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    Greetings from New England

    Well, it's been a fairly long road for me. I have only just recently (6 months ago) started dating after being married and monogamous for a long time. My spouse had a couple affairs over the course of our marriage, and six years ago found her way to tell me that although she felt our...
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