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Thank you everyone for your input. There are still some insecurities I didn't realize I had that I'm needing to work through, but me and E (our girl) did have a great day together Saturday which allowed for our own connections to form more secury and further made the path more smooth. T ( my...

Leetah, the request was made when we were just considering swinging. But when the question came up a few days later, it was absolutely something that I was still not comfortable with. So I reaffirmed that request. We didn't really talk about any specific time frame that request would last...

Tough love is good... when it comes to relationships especially IMO. :)

The Wind, thank you for that. That actually helps a lot... Also, nycindie's first comment was kind of a slap to the face.. that was needed. I don't know if that was the intent, but it had that effect.

Oh, as for how they'd regain my trust... We haven't really talked about it in those terms specifically yet. They've both said they'd be patient, and really, after that it's my responsibility to address my fears or the roots of the jealousy and make that leap of faith.

Yes, nycindie, they've been talking and have both relayed how bad they felt about that piece. She and I are going to go have a girls day this weekend to just stretch our legs and relax. I think we're planning dinner as a whole group that evening to rehash what we all want out of this and...

Oh our four way was fantastic! The three of us mff was as well. No jealousy or discomfort in any of that. In regard to the other guy, he's wonderful! There just didn't happen to be as strong of an emotional attachment with him as with her. And for the sake of "the record", after the mff...

Hmmm... Lots of food for thought right there. I should mention that we'd originally started with a couple because we were just into the idea of swinging a bit... It has rather rapidly changed from that. I have no specific need for it to be a couple at all. It just happened to have worked...

Good morning! Well, if you'd told me three months ago "you're going to be in a poly relationship", I'd have thought "huh? Um... wot?" I've always figured myself pretty open minded, felt polyamory and variations on the theme was perfectly fine as long as all parties are consenting adults...