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Thanks, everyone. I really appreciate the input. It's simultaneously terrifying and exciting to think about this situation. I'm sure a lot of you remember that first time of seeking out a second/extra-marital partner. :D I don't think I have quite built up the confidence to approach this...

Thanks for the advice. I'm definitely dealing with how to make things happen without it being super-awkward after the "conversation." Of course, friends and others say, "Oh, just make a move on him, and if he's into you, then you'll know." But that just seems kind of shady without explaining...

Thanks for the advice. Straightforward is good, though I'm still working through my fear of rejection. :rolleyes: I like the idea of saying "don't answer right away" because that gives the other person some time to recover from what be a little bit of a shock.

I guess what I want really does toe the line between "friend" and "boyfriend/lover", but labels are really hard to apply, since I'm kind of new to this. I think the commitment and level of involvement would be lower with a "friend with benefits." I wouldn't necessarily expect to meet his...

So, my hubby and I are totally new to opening up our relationship/polyamory. Actually, I still haven't figured out if I'm really poly or just semi-poly. :) Anyhow, the idea of having a "friends with benefits" or an "intimate friend" appeals to me. I want more than just someone I only see for...

Glad to see all the Texas polys/maybe-polys coming out of the woodwork! Sometimes it's hard to remember that even in a conservative state, I'm not the only "open-minded" person. :) I grew up in South Texas, and now hail from North Texas.

I'm 33, female, and have been in a monogamous marriage for almost 7 years. Long story short, a couple of years ago, my husband expressed an interest in seeking out other sex partners. We discussed it at the time, and I was open to it, but we never progressed past talking and he never pursued...