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    being bold in public

    Very cool. I'm proud of you. It's it great to find at least one way to be honest about your life and it not come back to bite you in the ass?;):D
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    A Polyamory Paradox

    I totally agree with you. You said it better than I could have.
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    Maca, let me know if she needs to talk to someone privately.

    Maca, let me know if she needs to talk to someone privately.
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    New to this and dealing with jealousy

    Kat, I have been here. At the beginning of the relationship between Kitten and Gator she was constantly calling and texting him. I couldn't get any private time with him and it used to hurt me that he didn't ensure we had some and piss me off to be honest that she didn't respect me enough to let...
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    It generally helps to know you aren't the only one in a situation. I hope she gets better soon.

    It generally helps to know you aren't the only one in a situation. I hope she gets better soon.
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    Responsibility of Thirds......

    LR, I'm really empathizing with you right now. Tech and I have only been together a little over three years but I feel as you've said as well. I also think that, after saying Kitten and I are the same to him and he encouraging me to make some changes when I admitted to feeling the same about...
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    A simple question...Or is it?

    Our quad has been together a little over three years now. We make it day by day I guess. Like most relationships of any kind. I can be the glue at times in suppose...simply because I insist in more communication that a couple of them like and are used to. Well, that would be Tech and Kitten...
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    Poly things that make you smile

    This past weekend the four of us were together. Saturday morning Gator and Kitten were starting their day earlier than Tech and I. They came in to kiss us bye before leaving us in bed to meet up with them later. We spent the day in a quad and dyads. A little with the girls together and the guys...
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    Symbols of commitment

    The four of us have matching bands. I've always liked the puzzle rings and when Kitten saw them she did as well. Our guys bought each of us one. There is poly jewelry available. I thought about having the guys buy me a necklace to represent the v I'm in with them. But I think I want to buy...
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    Not supposed to compare ourselves, but...

    Vexxed, it's true, I do notice and I'm aware of the differences and similarities of my partners. How can I not if I've truly gotten to know them? The difference I'm seeing for myself is that I revel in the differences. I have no desire for my boyfriend to be exactly like my husband. I enjoy the...
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    Religious survey

    I'm a Christian. Raised Baptist. I don't currently attend a church of any kind regularly. I've become disillusioned with organized religion for the most part. I've found that what is taught (and I've done my fair share of the teaching) isn't necessarily what the bible is saying. I find...
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    New Member from GA

    Welcome!!
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    Appreciations

    ROFL. I got your humor. But I'm considered odd.
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    Should I speak about it?

    Why would you want to start a relationship dishonestly?
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    today is going to be a very sad day for us

    I'm so sorry for your loss. Hugs to all of you.
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    Time to write about us :)

    Thanks for sharing with us. You are a very lucky to be so loved.
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    A secondary's bill of rights

    Absolutely true. It's something I am having to deal with in some areas.
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    Is it possible to feel too much

    Yes, I can relate to this. I'm slow to let others in but when I do, I don't love half-heartedly. Nor do I feel any emotion halfway. And I think I frighten some people in a way. Tech is like me in that he doesn't let others in easily. Not like me in that he shows emtions much at all. And he...
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    Congratulations to mono and redpepper

    Happy Anniversary to you both and what a great post!
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    looking for some advice on how to handle my parents

    I really do not know what to say to you. I have no advice at all. I can certainly empathize. This is the first visit my mom has made (she always stays with my sister) since I told her the last time she was down. Things are a bit strained. She doesn't seem to treat Gator the same as she did...
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