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  1. lamnidae

    Blog of a Former Unicorn

    I'm excited for coffee too!!! :)
  2. lamnidae

    Blog of a Former Unicorn

    Things sound busy and awesome in unicorn land! I hope you enjoy coffee and shooting (in that order) :)
  3. lamnidae

    Blog of a Former Unicorn

    Not really. But, if you are headed this way let me know. My schedule is a little bit bananas as I am starting a new job this week, but I would love to try to meet up. And it would be lovely if others could make it to. Mini support group moment and all ;)
  4. lamnidae

    Blog of a Former Unicorn

    That sounds like a great weekend! I know the experience of reconnecting with your spouse and the amazing feeling of remembering all the reasons you fell in love/were attracted to them in the 1st place. Good for you guys! I hope that continues and that feeling of balance stays present.
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    Blog of a Former Unicorn

    Well, if I am ever in Homer or you ever find yourself in the valley.... coffee can be had! :) I absolutely hear you though. It can be hard to find people up here who understand what you are living.
  6. lamnidae

    Blog of a Former Unicorn

    I happen to adore coffee and chitchat, and I feel like my life could use more of that! I would love to get to know some people around here who I could really talk to about life stuff.
  7. lamnidae

    Blog of a Former Unicorn

    closer cool people! FYI, I am a fellow Wasilla-ite, Wasillian? Either way, I live here too, and I like to think I am relatively cool ;)
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    That sounds excellent! Happy to meet you :)

    That sounds excellent! Happy to meet you :)
  9. lamnidae

    Touch

    touch in my triad I think my little triad follows the rule of being in the other person's shoes. We are all comfortable kissing, hand holding, hugging, snuggling in each others' presence, but we are also aware of the headspace that the other member is in. i.e. If R had a shit day, he may not...
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    Opinions about Oregon/Portand area

    So, my husband, girlfriend, and I are very strongly considering moving to the Portland area. Anyone have any experience in that region? I lived in Spokane for awhile, and I have always liked the Northwest. It just seems that some people hate the Portland area, and I am wanting some first hand...
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    Why and how did you get into poly?

    I believe and feel whole heartedly that one of the most amazing qualities of being human is our ability to love abundantly. I want my life to be full of love and enriching people. I love feeling my husband's joy with his new relationships, and I love the feeling of growing to care about a new...
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    Why do you use the online name that you use?

    Ah, lol... totally opposite of my strategy then! :) I generally spew onto the page and then hack alot of it out!
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    Why do you use the online name that you use?

    Mr. Dreadful, I must admit that I chuckled when I saw that your edit reason was "extra paragraph of stuff." :) I do that all the time.... type a bunch then re-read and remove! Catbird: I like to tap into my intimidating side on occasion! I like to know that I have it available for the folks...
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    Hello from Alaska

    Sure! I have been married to my husband for 8 years (together for 10). I have my degree in Social Work with minors in Addiction studies and Women's History. I worked for about 5 years in the mental health field, much of that with the homeless population. I currently work from home doing medical...
  15. lamnidae

    Why do you use the online name that you use?

    Lol, touche! I can see that I will need to be on my A game around here ;) I just might start calling myself the Great White Nerd.... although the term intellectual badass (totally robbed from a facebook page) is much more appealing!
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    Hello from Alaska

    I'm definitely glad to find a place where I can hear from people that have been living this for years. I find so much help in just reading some of the old threads. It has made me think about issues that I might not have otherwise!
  17. lamnidae

    Hello from Alaska

    Thank you!
  18. lamnidae

    Why do you use the online name that you use?

    Because I am a giant nerd! :rolleyes: When I was younger I swore up and down that I was going to be a marine biologist, and I love sharks. So, lamnidae is the family of sharks that contains the great white, mako, etc. And because I am a giant nerd, here is a link :D ...
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    Poly Lessons We've Learned

    I am still relatively new to this (3 months), but for me, the biggest learning curve has been that I have to be willing to give what I am asking for. If I want my husband and L to listen to my feelings without becoming defensive or frustrated, then I have to be willing to do the same. Another...
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    Personal Summaries

    My name is Erin, and I am 27. My husband is 30 and we have been in relationship with an amazing woman (I think I will refer to her as L) for the past 3 months. My husband and L have known each other for 2 years, and in the past 6 months it became very evident that they shared a connection. She...
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