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Bloody hell you girls like to live dangerous..Mains Electricity + water? Inside you at that? You have a lot of faith in technology...:eek:

This is a nice thread to read. :D

Welcome. Really artistic tattoos also.

He doesn't seem grown up enough to get married. It seems like you can verbalise your concerns and construct your arguments very well. Whereas he cannot, and resorts to sulking and getting angry. But the drinking is the very worse thing he is doing. Don't marry a drunk. Don't even waste any...

Hi Mike , it's usually the other way around, the newbies ask the questions! Welcome. You didn't give away too much but here is a question or two to get you thinking. First off, what would YOU want from a poly lifestyle? can you see it as something that would make you happy? How about if your...

We didn't tell our kids anything for about 2 months, they were getting very stressed out ....things were very much better after we told them. I suggest telling him everything, then if he needs to ask any questions he can in his own time.

I think you should change the name of this thread. You are not in over your head, anymore. You are swimming fine. Good progress. Just keep it real and don't panic over the speed bumps.

Tonberry, that's really profound stuff. Honestly, I think there is a lot of truth in there, as regards how a woman's mind works (hope that doesn't sound sexist). Thanks for that.

Hmm. Hi Sandy. As another male, I can tell that your boyfriend has problems with sex. He is likely ashamed and embarrassed about it, so doesn't communicate very well with you (hence the mixed signals) and is really making his problem your problem. I been there once, after my first marriage...

OK will do. ;)

Tracy, I very much wanted to complete your questionaire but I felt it didn't apply to me at all...as I am mono but my wife is the polyamorous one. So my answers would be be that my relationship is completely monogamous, which would make no sense and skew your results up. I feel this is a major...

Yes it can work. A lot depends on the mono person. If he is accepting of your in her life then no problem. Sounds like it is working so far.

Hi Sundance, nice to hear your voice .

Er, one word, Freetime: letter. We talked about this, remember?

I agree with nycindie-- DEFINITELY do not buy this man a car. Use the cash to help you set up your own apartment. When you have your independence, and you and Misty are more equal, for a start, you will feel so much better about the whole thing. He wants two women, so let him do the running...

This is good news, Freetime. I am very glad. I am happy that you will be sticking around. Although everybody's experience is slightly different, a lot of the same issues come up. We have all been through similar things. You will have up days and down days, but I can tell you that you will...

to answer your last question, no your husband does not have to be poly if you are. Nobody has to do anything they do not want to do.

Hi Freetime, You are feeling pretty low right now. I can tell. I felt pretty hopeless at the beginning too. But now we are 8 months in, and my marriage is better than ever. I am not delusional. It really is better. My wife has told me many times that she wants to grow old with me. She never...

We strive for the answers to all that bollocks too, in between the shopping and cooking the dinner. :rolleyes: haha

Hi RP, Well, for what I am worth, you can always talk to me. You know, I tell it like I see it, too. :D