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Hi kreeativ, Not trying to be negative, but how does one go about "transcending the issues of human condition"? In my experience, SOMEONE in a relationship has to cook the dinner, go to work and do the shopping. ;)

Not knowing any unicorns, but just exploring the concept hypothetically, I would guess that becoming a unicorn is the worst thing that someone with low self esteem would need. But I could see that in some inverse way that would be attractive to them. It wouldn't help them improve, but they could...

I would think: 1. exploration of relationships 2. sexual adventure 3. no responsibilities 4. no long-term commitment Other things that may have a bearing: a place to stay and food to eat (if live-in) in return for sex. To some people out there, that might seem a pretty good option.

Haha first and last.

Hi Magdlyn, sorry quick answers I have to start work! Almost 8 months now she knew D 2 months before , there was a little bit of deceit at the beginning. No lover for me, not interested, D and I are both mono. The kids don't tell anybody. We haven't told them not to, they just don't. We are...

6 but only 5 at home now.....one is at university

Yes. We generally stick to the same days, but twice we have had to rearrange things because my wife wanted to be home for special events such as you describe. For instance, in the very first month one of the children's birthdays and our wedding anniversary were on consecutive days, which both...

Hi Sage >Just wondering why you're asking this? I hope it's because it's working so well for you you're wondering why it isn't more common? < I didn't have any special reason for asking, except maybe I don't have any problems right now and it has been ages since I posted anything.. > I would...

Hi RP, actually I did not realise that you had a sort of schedule to be with each of your men..I guess you can break it down into smaller segments over a single day..I would be very interested to talk to you about any psychological "transition period" you have in going from one to another..is...

Thanks Ariakas and NYcyndie. > It would seem like a great way for the fulcrum in the Vee to give fully to each relationship without being distracted by scheduling conflicts and anxieties over making sure everyone's getting enough attention that I see so many people here dealing with. And those...

I have been here a while now . I know that nothing is really new under the sun, somebody somewhere must be doing the same, but I was wondering if anybody else on here has a similiar time split to us: My wife lives with me at our house for 4 nights (sun-wed) and then she goes and lives with...

I work night shift. So sometimes I have a wine or beer or indeed a vodka when I get home from work around 6 am. Just one . It is indeed a bad habit though. I find that the different types of alcohol have different effects; a red wine will help me sleep but a beer or vodka will keep me awake.

" when security deepens..." Bollocks forgot it already. Too much wine this morning sorry :o

"when love deepens, security lags behind a moment". I found that quite profound. I will remember that. abhainn I think this place is going to be a great resource for you, don't be a stranger. Lots of basic info about rights that you asked about is on here, I think the admins have organised it...

Hi Bricklie, I admit it, I am 50% just reading your posts because I enjoy your writing style. The one about having to redraft your whole personality had me chuckling. But yeah, I hope you work this out. I think you should meet your man's other lady more , get to know her a bit. I think that...

"You can lead a Frenchman to water but you can't make him wash" (old English proverb) :D

Hi RP, If I may, I have a question, which I hope ties in with bits of what you have written last few posts. The thing is, I don't really understand your internal conflict. What is so bad for you about being poly-fi? To me it, is like you honour someone when you become intimate with them and...

Mono, I can understand you getting a little defensive on your own thread . I identify with a lot of what you say although your situation is much much different and you have been in poly much longer. It is certainly OK to be afraid of change mate. Fuck I was afraid many times during the last 6...

I keep having to pinch myself to make sure what I am reading is real. I don't mean that in a facetious way, RP. I think you and Mono are great people. It is your level of honesty about the nuts and bolts that I am finding amazing. I am sure you are helping a lot of people. NYCindie and Magdlyn...