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  1. L

    Don't want to play anymore...:((((

    Why can't he take out a life insurance policy and make her beneficiary? It sounds like he could afford the premiums. I'm just wondering if I'm the only one who doesn't really trust him? It's just a feeling I have.
  2. L

    Don't want to play anymore...:((((

    It was mentioned in an earlier post, this is full of red flags! It's obvious that you're hurting. I'm so sorry. The fact remains though that you did move there agreeing to certain things. You've managed to get everybody to agree to change several of the things you agreed to in the first...
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    Matt's Thoughts

    I actually agree with you. From what I've read on your wife's thread and yours, I don't see Si as a parent in any way, shape or form. I'm sure she cares about your children. But in my opinion, when she was angry and hurt and didn't make any attempt to check on them in any way, that spoke...
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    Wide Awake

    I've been following this thread and before that, I followed Matt's. What a sad situation. I actually can empathize with each of you and that's the thing that makes it so heartbreaking. Matt is being over-the-top stubborn, but I can see how he reached this point, but looking back, it was as...
  5. L

    No consent and pursuit ensued

    She approached him knowing he had a relationship with you. Then when he told her he was poly, she wasn't sure she could do that. Am I the only one who reads this as, she was willing to cheat but not overjoyed about sharing, with everything out in the open?
  6. L

    Confused and very scared

    You have some major soul searching to do. As has already been pointed out, you have to decide what YOU want from a relationship. You, just like anyone else, deserve to be with someone who wants the same things that you want. To me, it feels like he cheated on you. Instead of talking to you...
  7. L

    Here we go

    He's hoping she and I will form some kind of connection. I think we both would like it if we could all have a relationship. I've meet her once so it's to soon to know
  8. L

    Here we go

    The thing is, I'm not bothered by them having sex. And I don't need a blow by blow. I think it's the intimacy that makes me feel a bit insecure. He's willing to talk about anything I need to talk about and he's willing to answer any questions I have. But I don't even know what questions to...
  9. L

    Here we go

    I posted my introduction in the Introduction section not too long ago where I explained that I'm in a D/s relationship. I knew from the beginning that N was poly. He's been extremely patient with me as I came to terms with this. We talked a lot, he answered all my questions, and more...
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    me

    Oh I learn everytime I come to this site! I'm not alone!!! lol
  11. L

    me

    I've been reading this site for a few months and decided to jump in. I'm in a D/s relationship for about six months now. I'll call him L. We're happy together and he's the first person I've ever met with whom I could truly communicate and be who I am. We've spent the first six months of our...
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