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He doesn’t want me or the other girl to see anyone else because our love for him could change. He has the belief that women are more easily swayed emotionally especially if there’s intimacy.

UPDATE: I ended up giving him an ultimatum, after speaking briefly with the other girl. I guess he had also told her she couldn't see anyone else, and that led me to believe he's not truly poly. I don't have an issue with people who live this way. If everyone is in agreement, then all is well...

Backstory: I (29F) met my BF (28M) April of 2022 and we've been together ever since. I met him while I was going through my divorce. (I was the one who initiated.) I was having a hard time dealing with sharing the kids (2 under 5) with my ex. There were a lot of emotions, including depression...