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Ok. A lot to cover here. If I come off blunt, it's not disrespect. It's tough love. First, there's a difference between open and poly. Open relationships are basically swinging relationships. Polyamorous relationships involve actual feelings. Not trying to be a jargon stickler, but the...

Today was another amazing day, helped in part by Adderall. Not that we need it for our relationship, but when we both rake it, she becomes more lovey dovey and I focus on my own activities a lot more. With that little bit, we ended up doing errands together and feeling really super connected...

Thank you, SC, for giving me the benefit of the doubt about being intentional with my word choice. Usually I am hyper-intentional, but in this case did mean privilege. Or did I? The situation im in at the moment has my companion with a nikew person shes dating. Im wondering if there are...

We listened to our favorite podcast about haunted things (anything ghost, if youre interested)...and i gave her a full body massage. The moans of delight were enough to make me happy. Ive woken up this morning, with Audrey by my side, naked and gorgeous, but feeling a little unsure of whats to...

It's 1 a.m. and I'm up so I figured I would type out the debacle that was today. So Audrey goes on her date with her new dude, Amos. I get up, feed the mongrels, clean up the kitchen, get the trash out and head to work by 7:45. I kiss Audrey on the forehead, but she's deep asleep and doesn't...

No, I'm saying treat me equally. Yesterday while we were out together, having what I was hoping was quality time, she was texting him back and forth like a lightning round of Jeopardy. Today, when she was out with him, she couldn't be bothered to text me back at all. I'm saying if you're...

Home for the second half of the day to take a conference call at my computer. Audrey left about 12 for some time with Amos. While she has made a few attempts at texting on her own initiative, I think we're going to have to have a talk. It just so happened that Audrey wanted a particular meal...

I know that volumes have been written about couple preference/priority. I've recently become curious about how others approach the issue. Depending on your poly philosophy, priority can or cannot be unfair. Someone's previous history may necessitate partners who can enthusiastically agree to...

A long time ago I scored an INTP. I dont' feel much differently, but about 5 years ago I got an ENFJ. I always feel weird about making the choices as I can bend my responses in lots of different ways and never feel that the answers really fit.

Yesterday was funny. That's the only word I can come up with right now. Seriously. In the morning time, Audrey and I had a great time before I left for work. Very playful. Very DD/lg. She stole my shoe so I couldn't get to work and it was the most adorable thing ever. She really lets me know...

Exactly. What's the question...or is this a "i'm excited and need to share" post?

What fun! Last night I treated Audrey and Minou (new roommate) to Indian food and a movie (Captain America: Winter Soldier). I'd forgotten that Spider-Man comes out tonight so it looks like we'll be going back out again to the movies again. Once we decided to see ASM2 last night, it was only...

Within about an hour from our first exchange, she apologized and told me she was home and that she was sorry for the slow replies. I decided not to make a big deal out of things. When I got home, she was very affectionate and I reciprocated. We watched the tail end of the movie she had started...

Not wanting us to get into a rut, I decided to text her this morning. Something flirty and sexy to heighten the anticipation of our lunch time romp. And I'm not getting the response I'd hoped for. :( So I text her something devilish...and it takes 30 minutes for her to respond. She'd said this...

I'm wondering if sparelightbulb will actually return to this thread having pouted out their last post in such a temper tantrum fashion against nycindie. They need not fear repercussions, but I'm wondering if they do.

Lots of great advice given so far. Just want to add another voice to the chorus that's telling you to be up front and explain everything. It's fine not to want to have sex, as long as you're up front about it. I was married to a woman who wouldnt have sex for years at a time. Without going into...

Great night last night. Audrey, her sister and brother-in-law, myself, and our new roommate and friend Minou all sat outside on my huge porch talking and drinking and laughing for what seemed like a glorious eternity. So much fun. Audrey wrapped her hand around my thigh, and flipped her long...

I'm a little late to the discussion, but I'm glad that you have accepted that despite the inexplicable change in your relationship, HipsterBoy has set limits that you want to honor. Trust me, I know what it is like to see something that you think no one else sees in terms of relationships. "It...

Had a minor dust up. Last night before bed. Audrey had been out for 7 hours with her new date. Great for her. Seriously, being home bound can suck and new people are great. Her mother came over to watch movies with us downstairs and after awhile, I suddenly look over and she's texting. I ask...

You're right. Absolutely. She could have been out all night if shed wanted to. We've been together from dawn to dusk for months now without her dating. And it just got weird. The check in you saw above is part of our ritual when she does date. Often times, she won't make a decision about how...