Search results

  1. J

    Sad. Metamour says no.

    They have small kids and have been married for a long time but got together based largely on the premise of both being poly. Health problems, however, meant that they didn't really practice for a long time and I was the first real secondary partner, it seems, since early in their relationship...
  2. J

    Tricky business! Kids, new partners, custody, xH...

    I was just thrown a bit of a curve ball and could use some guidance. I am newly poly. I am divorced and share custody of our kids. It was a horribly 'high conflict' divorce. Nonetheless, 3 years later we can chat, even have a laugh together and I see a big difference in the kids' behaviours as...
  3. J

    Meeting the 'metamour'

    This is my first significant poly relationship and we are excited to move forward and explore the possibilities of our relationship. I'm going to meet his wife and kids this week. They have been poly for a long time but I think I'm the first additional relationship in about a decade due to...
  4. J

    Telling teen and children I'm poly, but had bad divorce with their dad

    It's a messy past with their dad (divorced for a number of years now) and there is still some tension and my oldest (14) tells me their dad still bad mouths me from time to time. I have always been so careful to not say anything bad about him in front of the kids. But, now I find myself poly...
  5. J

    I'm newly poly, is there room for relationships + promiscuity?

    I arrived at polyamory from a place of sexual exploration. I hadn't intended on being here at all, although I knew monogamy would no longer suit me. But then I met a man who is poly and I began to learn about it. I am now in a relationship with that man (who has a primary) and beginning another...
Back
Top