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One other question: how did you learn to do this, with the structure and the objectives/obstacles/problems and the validation? Is this something that there are books on? It seems like advanced-level interpersonal effectiveness, and I feel like I could use that in my life

Thank you so much, Galagirl. You got it exactly right. (Sorry that I was hard to follow). I actually started crying reading this, because I feel like this is the first time that someone's restated it in a way that makes sense and cuts through the tangle. This was very kind of you to make time to...

So my partner and I got together while we were both seeing other people, not so much in a polyamorous way as a "monogamous people who haven't defined the relationship" way. We both had previous polyamorous (or "polyamorous") relationships about two years back that were really hard on us, and I...